gered Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 i met this girl at my college bbq. we talked for 3 hours and then we exchanged numbers. a week later we met and hungout at the library. that night she called me and she had a question about her computer then we talked about random stuff for a half hour. then the next day i called her and asked her out on a date we made plans. we concluded it saying see you tommorow at the library. so today i went to see her at the library and i did not find her but i found her friends i chilled with them. they called her with my phone no pickup. so after a little while i went up stairs and found her studdying in a group for a test she is taking. i said hi what are you up to she said i we are just studdying i said okay then i will see you later i went to go work out then came back as i was bored and asked if she was still studying she said yeah. i then just sat down at a different table and just read some books and texted people on my phone. after a little while later i heard she was heading to lunch i asked her if i could join her she said sure. after we got our food i learned that she was going with two other girls there so i felt awkward being the only guy but i still made it feal comfortable. did i come off possibly a bit too needy or desperate? did i ruin any chance i had with her? or is it really nothing?
boogieboy Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Of course you are! how is she supposed to look forward to your date, when you keep poppin up where she is every couple hours? Lay back and wait for the date, dont keep looking for her and calling her. Give her a lil mystery.
Author gered Posted September 25, 2009 Author Posted September 25, 2009 i know first of all i only saw her for 20 minutes out of the 3 hours between our classes. but i was close to her in the library for the last hour and half. the date is next thursday and i wont see her until earliest the day before that if i even do. i just feal miserable like i ruined my chances. i really like her did i ruin them.
callingyouuu Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Proximity is only a step behind actually talking with her, so if you want to "create a little mystery", I would suggest not being around her as much for the next few days, maybe once or twice before Thursday at most. Did you ruin your chances? No. The only thing I would have done differently is not to go looking for her when you're bored, because then she gets to see you when you're most uninteresting to talk to. Just relax a bit, play it slow, and you'll be fine.
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