goldfinger Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Hi am engaged and due to get married next year. My boyfriend is the only guy I've been sexually active with. I was always satisfied with his penis (as it was the only one I'd seen) until recently. But now I have major doubts. I was unfaithful with a guy and he had an unbelievable penis and the feeling of it in me OMG! What should I do?????????
JustLooking123 Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Hi am engaged and due to get married next year. My boyfriend is the only guy I've been sexually active with. I was always satisfied with his penis (as it was the only one I'd seen) until recently. But now I have major doubts. I was unfaithful with a guy and he had an unbelievable penis and the feeling of it in me OMG! What should I do????????? You should tell your fiance, and you should probably end things with him. You're not ready to marry him. He deserves to know the truth about you.
Angel1111 Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 I agree with the others - you're not ready to get married. End your relationship with the guy you're engaged to, and then see all the penises you want to see. One day, your interest will move upward toward the guy's heart and soul and then you'll be ready for a real relationship.
HUFI Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 I agree with the others - you're not ready to get married. End your relationship with the guy you're engaged to, and then see all the penises you want to see. One day, your interest will move upward toward the guy's heart and soul and then you'll be ready for a real relationship. Ditto for the advice by Angel1111 I agree with all of the others! You're not ready to get married. End your relationship with the guy you're engaged to and have the courage to tell him that you slept with someone else so at least he knows the truth about his "blushing bride to be". As a free and single woman, you can find all the penises you want. One day, your interest will move upward toward the guy's heart and soul and then you'll be ready for a real relationship. HUFI
giotto Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 so, you are going to tell him you are breaking off the engagement because his penis is too small? How to kill a man...
Toodamnpragmatic Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Hi am engaged and due to get married next year. My boyfriend is the only guy I've been sexually active with. I was always satisfied with his penis (as it was the only one I'd seen) until recently. But now I have major doubts. I was unfaithful with a guy and he had an unbelievable penis and the feeling of it in me OMG! What should I do????????? TROLL..... Please ignore.....
giotto Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 TROLL..... Please ignore..... exactly my thoughts...
jmargel Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Ya beat me to it.. lol Good laugh for a friday morning.
Toodamnpragmatic Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Ya beat me to it.. lol Good laugh for a friday morning. Only thing missing was the 1-800 # for Extenze (or some similar male enhancement product).
Angel1111 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Troll? Can someone explain? People who post stuff on the board just to get a rise out of everyone. Their situation isn't real, they're just making stuff up. "Troll", as in those ugly little monsters that live under bridges and create trouble for everyone who crosses. At least, that's my understanding of the term.
Author goldfinger Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Excuse me? A troll? I've just come looking for a little advice. Yes I do love my Fiance and never cheated before. The problem now is sex is a big part of any relationship and now I know that I can be a lot more satisfied is a big problem. Will I always wonder this forever???? I am going to tell my fiance about my cheating , but if he forgives me what then? I will always wonder about sex???
mark982 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 you're quuestioning us? you came here 4 days ago wanting answers. nice to see how consirned your were. anyways i'm glad you're going to tell your bf. you both deserve to be happy. you for your love of a bigger unit, him cause he deserves a loyal,trusting loving partner.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 *ahem* Ok, I'm throwing myself to the sharks, here, but I think I can offer a bit of perspective, here. When I still had not finalized on the idea of divorcing my XH, goldfinger, I got his consent to...well...sleep with other guys (alright, alright - start throwing stones now). Up to that point, I had been perfectly fine with what was being offered to me via my XH. I found a whole new world out there. LOL And my XH is actually average if not slightly above. So at that point, yes - I got antsy wondering if I was going to be stuck in a marriage with a man whose penis I couldn't be satisfied with. But you know what it all came down to? It wasn't about his freaking penis at all. You have two issues here that SCREAM "bad relationship:" 1. You chose to step outside your relationship and cheat. People that are happy in their relationship do not do this. Just a little hint for you. 2. You're focusing on the size of your DF's penis, now, and claiming that is the sole problem in your relationship. So how about we cut the crap, huh? Don't try the "everything's perfect except for his penis." That's BS and you know it. I know it. There's more going on that you're not admitting to. So...'fess up?
seibert253 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I think penis size is only a symptom of a bigger problem. If this is an issue, then you are not mature, or experienced enough for a lifelong commitment. You are also not trustworthy and have character issues you should address before you even consider getting engaged. Do your fiance' a big favor; tell him what you did, then cut him loose. He deserves better.
stillafool Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Excuse me? A troll? I've just come looking for a little advice. Yes I do love my Fiance and never cheated before. The problem now is sex is a big part of any relationship and now I know that I can be a lot more satisfied is a big problem. Will I always wonder this forever???? I am going to tell my fiance about my cheating , but if he forgives me what then? I will always wonder about sex??? Are you going to have sex with the other guy again? Probably so. When women feel something like that it is hard to let it go. I think you first need to be honest with your fiance that you cheated on him with another guy. He will ask you eventually how was the sex. Don't tell him what you told us because it will crush him. Just tell him you don't think you are ready for marriage. How old are you?
stillafool Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Also I'm curious how you got yourself in that situation considering you are engaged. What happened?
Musa Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Penis size doesn't matter.technique is what is important.
justforfun Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 Penis size doesn't matter.technique is what is important. Rubbish! It depends on the way the woman is wired. If most pleasure is gained by deep penetration then a small penis just isn't going to do it for her. I'm one of those women and I've tried to enjoy a smaller penis but it just doesn't work for me. I feel dissatisfied and I don't initiate sex because I know that it won't give me the physical feeling that I want.
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