This weekend I'm going to see the guy who rejected me, How should I act around him?

[LB85]

This guy lead me on big time! He would ruthlessly flirt and show interest and everything but he never acted on it and I thought it was because we were both Indian family friends (and especially because our brothers are bestfriends).

 

However, I realised he's just a dick:p! A little too late though! He once wanted to take me for dinner to ''make up'' for something he barely needed to make up for:confused:. This happened after almost a year of liking him!!!

 

Anyway, he took over 2 weeks to finally ask me out for the dinner and since I didn't think it was going to happen anymore, I planned a holiday and left the day after he asked it but I responded that very night and asked him if we could plan this dinner when I got back. He didn't respond and just did as I never said that and wrote to me after 2 weeks asking how my holiday was. So I gave it one more shot and invited him to my bday but my friends got on my case and said I'm indicating that I just want to be friends so when he asked how my party was and stuff, I wrote again and joked that he still owed me a dinner and kept it very light. He never replied ever since.

 

Anyway he played games all the way, he never asked for my number which was already strange but he would make an effort to keep in touch online so I (of course foolishly) ignored that detail.

 

However, I'm going to see him this weekend at his parents' place and I wanted to give him a cold shoulder but I can't go into his home and do that so how should I act towards him then? I'm first going to try and get out of going though:laugh:!

[silic0ntoad]

I just wouldn't go.

[Trialbyfire]

Did he really lead you on? That he finally got up the courage to ask you out, regardless if it was an inconvenient time for you, says he wasn't leading you on.

 

But, I do agree that he wasn't a high interest guy.

 

Don't act. Just be yourself.

[Odyssey]

If someone's got no interest in me, then i wouldn't bother going.

But, if you have no choice, then like TBF said - be yourself. There's no need to be mean about it, though.

[LB85]

Of course I need to act a certain way! I can't be the way I always was with him and I don't know how to change my behaviour. I was always flirting with him and being extra friendly. And I hate it that he played games, I thought he was at least a friend so I did get hurt and I don't mind showing him that he can't treat me a certain way. I don't want to be mean to him because he isn't worth that but he's a player (I already heard that but still liked hima nd didn't want to listen to rumours).I don't want him to think he can treat me like he does all the other girls and I want to keep a decent distance except I don't want to go over the top so thats why I'm confused.

[gd26]

If you had no interest in trying to get him to be interested in you, then you wouldn't care how you acted around him at all. The fact that you want to know the best way to act tells me that you ARE hoping to get his attention or make him feel a certain way.

 

Don't bother. This guy is clearly not worth it. You are only prolonging heartache wondering about him.