Author brock9911 Posted September 25, 2009 Author Posted September 25, 2009 Caramel- its honestly the most confusing thing in the world to me. we used to be a big group of about 15 people who were friends. they all didnt like my ex after what had happened with her cheating. i chose her over them. i stopped talking to them cuz everytime i did, i was treated like a piece of sh*t. i was still friends with a 2 of them until there was a huge falling out between us because of money. we were roommates. and also because they hated my ex. they actually caught her cheating on me. now i didnt socialize with them for a good 9 to 10 months until my ex and i broke up. my one friend found out and made an effort to get me and my other roommate to talk again. over the last 3 months we became close again, now this happened. i dont see the significance of him contacting her or even wanting to talk to her, especially when he said he hates her this whole time. he didnt hesitate to call me to clear things up. i dunno its very hard for me to trust anyone at this point. he no longer speaks to the other bigger group of people because they too had a falling out. he says that he thinks they got on his myspace and sent the message. i dont knwo what to believe. i knew i shouldnt have been so nosey but my curiosity got the best of me. i than sent her a message asking her y she was messaging my friend to make it seem like it wasnt him. she told me what the message said and that he was contacting her. i than said that he said he didnt send anything, that someone must have access to his accountt
caramel c Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Caramel- its honestly the most confusing thing in the world to me. we used to be a big group of about 15 people who were friends. they all didnt like my ex after what had happened with her cheating. i chose her over them. i stopped talking to them cuz everytime i did, i was treated like a piece of sh*t. i was still friends with a 2 of them until there was a huge falling out between us because of money. we were roommates. and also because they hated my ex. they actually caught her cheating on me. now i didnt socialize with them for a good 9 to 10 months until my ex and i broke up. my one friend found out and made an effort to get me and my other roommate to talk again. over the last 3 months we became close again, now this happened. i dont see the significance of him contacting her or even wanting to talk to her, especially when he said he hates her this whole time. he didnt hesitate to call me to clear things up. i dunno its very hard for me to trust anyone at this point. he no longer speaks to the other bigger group of people because they too had a falling out. he says that he thinks they got on his myspace and sent the message. i dont knwo what to believe. i knew i shouldnt have been so nosey but my curiosity got the best of me. i than sent her a message asking her y she was messaging my friend to make it seem like it wasnt him. she told me what the message said and that he was contacting her. i than said that he said he didnt send anything, that someone must have access to his accountt I don't blame you. I wouldn't know who to believe, either. I would try to stay away from these people, they seem to be nothing but trouble.
GrayClouds Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 i became closer to my family, started talking to my father ect. more well rounded so to speak. i also oriented my goals in life. went to college, have a career. so in many ways i thank her alot. not for what im going through now, but for what iv become. Ya give her some cred but remember you did those things. It was your effort, it took work but you got through, just like you will with this.
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