caseymw25 Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 long story short. read my post 6 years and a baby. he left me and says he doesnt want to be in a relationship. because after i had our baby i went a little nutto and pushed him away and kicked him outta our house. back at his parents. because i live with my mom and he wasnt helping. well he had just started community college and his 2nd semester shortly after our problems he said he didnt want to be in a relationship. but looking at my phone bill i saw that he was talking to another girl. i dont know what goes on btw them but constant txting i just turned off his phone and he agreed so i wouldnt have to look at the crap. but he says he still loves me. just doesnt want a relationship. i asked him earlier if he wanted to come over maybe saturday or friday and watch a movie and just hang out and he somewhat agreed. do you think that him spending time with me more would bring back those "falling back in love" feelings he had for me before? and maybe push her out of the picture in the future? and next month i have to go with him and his family to his brothers wedding in missouri we are in tx. so a long drive with him. hes the best man and im going to stroll our son down the isle as a ring bear. do you think he will snap outta this if i attempt to show him what hes missing? i dunno but i think the wedding thing will snap him out of it for some reason. what do you think?
gavinus Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 this man will always be in your life. You need to get some self respect and accept him as either a partner or not at all. If you keep inviting him over he has the best of both worlds, you when he wants and other woman as well. As people told me time and time again, you dont respect a doormat you wipe your feet on it. I am sorry if that sounds harsh. I know how you feel you love him and want him in your life. Don't let him win by having you when he wants, I believe you have more self respect than that, and once you lose your self respect others will as well. Be strong, do the right thing for you and for your child. I think you deserve more, good luck
Author caseymw25 Posted September 25, 2009 Author Posted September 25, 2009 thanks for the advice your very right. im just sooo confused right now. i messed up last night and kept on pleading my case through txting cause he said he didnt want to talk on the phone. yeah. i just have to come to grips with that it is over. this girl got in the way. bitch! even if he does end up in a relationship with her, which looks like is the case through all the phone calls and txting i saw, he may not want a relationship but he sure gives her alot of attention that we had failed at after a baby. i guess he just didnt understand. oh well. i cant put my life on hold for this ass! i cant as much as i want to wait and see i cant. im just going to live my life now for me and my son.
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