Do I test myself?

[jaybird1043]

So I gor dumped almost 2 months ago, NC what so ever, had the worst time getting over it! I have bee reading a lot of books and just plain keeping busy as possible. I was still sad about it last week, but for the past few days, I feel great, I did not realize that I was not thinking about her at all. Si i do not know if I am totally bs'ing myself or I am really over her...So I was thinking about looking at her pics of facebook just to see how I feel or is this just a really bad idea? I do not want her back but I just want to know how I am progressing with the healing and I do not know how else to gauge it. As I am writing this, this sounds like a really dumb idea...

[smookie]

I am sorry I have no advise except for if you think of her at all or if she suddenly text you would you have to second guess looking or not? If you would have to ponder the thought I would not do it yet..

 

I love that Cupid is a *********.... ha ha ha

[NSW768]

i dont think u should. i would defriend her also. why are you still friends with her?

 

also delete any pics of u 2...maybe not tonight if thatlll mean seeing her (btw this was one of the toughest things i had to do)

[fofiffs]

I think its a bad idea to check her pics. Don't do it till you know deep down inside you are ready. Like you said you've been feeling really good these past few days. Don't ruin it.

[logitech]

I'd say go with removing her from your friends list. There really is nothing to gain from looking through the pics...

[gavinus]

Don't look at her facebook pic!! If you really are over her...why do you want to look? I think people torture themselves sometimes (me included) by wanting to see..to just have a look.....so don't do it, it won't achieve anything, so if you are feeling pain free, great!! Ignorance is bliss!!