my relationship - input needed

[hurricanes1210]

Hey all,

 

I joined this forum today to get some advice on my current situation, so here it goes.

 

I met this girl about a month ago and we started hanging out and doing things together. We both have a lot in common and i started to like her. about two weeks into it i told her how i felt and that i liked her and she responded with "i do too". We have talked for hours at a time and always enjoy each others company. We have kissed several times but lately we haven't because she told me she isn't a big fan of pda. I'm ok with that, but i am beginning to think its something else. In the last couple of weeks whenever i ask her to hang out she tells me that she is busy which is understandable, she is a college student and plays lacrosse. The thing that bothers me is that i usually text her everyday i dont see her and she makes me feel like i am bothering her without directly saying it. her answers will be short and not wanting to continue the conversation. So last week i asked her how she felt about us and she told me that she wasnt sure if we could be anything because she feels like she dosnt have enough time to spend with me. I responded by telling her that i like her more than any girl i have ever liked and that i would rather see her just once a week than not at all and she said "as long as you're ok with that".

 

So my problem is that i told her i wouldnt text her and ask her to do stuff all the time because i know that it stresses her out, but i feel like if i dont ask her, then we will never see each other. And now everytime i text her or call her, i feel like im bothering her. The other thing is that we rarely get to spend time together now as just the two of us, it is mostly with the group of friends that we share, and since she dosnt like pda, i get mixed vibes about whether she still likes me or not.

 

I am utterly confused and in need of your thoughts and advice. if you have other questions, i porbably left some stuff out so just ask.

 

Thanks.