JaggedRoad Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I have this urge to call the ex and finally tell her everything that has been on my mind since the break-up. Should I do it or should I just stick to NC?
northstar1 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I have this urge to call the ex and finally tell her everything that has been on my mind since the break-up. Should I do it or should I just stick to NC? I'm thinking about punching you in the groin for saying that. Should I do that, or will you man-up and stop being a baby? Don't call her dude, she won't care. Look out for you!!
Author JaggedRoad Posted September 23, 2009 Author Posted September 23, 2009 Ouch, but thanks for that xP Back to me.
northstar1 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Ouch, but thanks for that xP Back to me. Sorry man, you just need a quick tap
boogieboy Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Its not going to make you feel any better to tell her anything. All youre doing is looking for a reason to stay connected to her. You have to break that need for a connection, because even if you call her and tell her what you feel, you wont want to stop there. Its like an addiction. Trust me. Write it down in the "post to your ex" thread and get it off your chest, but dont talk to her.
NSW768 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 what ive been doing when i get in times of weakness is a write it out. what i want to say either in paper, email or text and then i just dont send it. this works for me, especially when you get angry or apologetic, 2 things that are only going to hurt the situation. like the other night i was kinda drunk and wrote this really mean and hateful text. i didnt send it. saw it in the AM and was so happy i didnt send it. really it would not have done any good except make me look childish and angry. now i would say make sure u dont put their email or number in the address bar just in case.
Author JaggedRoad Posted September 23, 2009 Author Posted September 23, 2009 Heh, I'm glad you didn't send that either. I wish I could say the same about myself a few weeks ago.
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