le_caz Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 i broke up with my girlfriend there recently, it was just because there was a weird feeling between us, the thing is as we broke up we sorted the weird feeling between us and put it down to moving to fast! we always got on and the last break up day i saw her we were like best friends again, she asked is there another way around this and hinted that in time we may feel different. do you think we just needed a break instead of a break up because after the break up when we were being open with each other it was like old times, i do love her and she also loves me and we both feel like best friends. she even sent me a email last night saying i was the best and we were like best friends and its so sad the way we didnt work out, im sad over it too but i broke up with her and im going no contact, to see how we both feel am i right?
AliBlack Posted September 25, 2009 Posted September 25, 2009 Hi, no-one can tell you how to do things, like at the moment I have to decide for myself whether to see my ex or not, it depends on what feels right for you. Sometimes when couples break up they then finally talk about the problems which caused them to break up and some couples can rebuild on that and try again. How do you think you would feel if you had no contact at all for the next month? i broke up with my girlfriend there recently, it was just because there was a weird feeling between us, the thing is as we broke up we sorted the weird feeling between us and put it down to moving to fast! we always got on and the last break up day i saw her we were like best friends again, she asked is there another way around this and hinted that in time we may feel different. do you think we just needed a break instead of a break up because after the break up when we were being open with each other it was like old times, i do love her and she also loves me and we both feel like best friends. she even sent me a email last night saying i was the best and we were like best friends and its so sad the way we didnt work out, im sad over it too but i broke up with her and im going no contact, to see how we both feel am i right?
Author le_caz Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 id feel grand about it, i need to focus on me for a bit anyway, some things in my life i want to sort out!
quarterlifecrisis Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Go NC for a month. It will give you a clear head. Four possible outcomes: 1. You want her, she wants you, get back together 2. You don't want her, she wants you, you keep on the same track 3. You don't want her, she doesn't want you, you keep on the same track 4. You want her, she doesn't want you...this one sucks. Just be prepared for the chance that you will want her and she has moved on. Given that you broke up with her, you probably have some lingering doubts. I give it higher probability that 2 or 3 will happen than 1 or 4.
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