jaybird1043 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I was just thinking about all the guys who are on here with broken hearts, they got dumped, cheated on, divorced so on ans so forth. Then all the women on here, all in the same situations. The guys on here would never be in a relationship with the type of women who posts on here and the women would never be with a guy that posts on here. Its really true what they say, opposites attract. Not one guy is broken hearted because his girl friend was so nice, its more like he got walked on, used and treated like sh*t. And the ladies did not date some nice guy that had her on a pedestal, kissed the ground she walked, its more like he was a selfish a$$ that put himself and/or his needs first. Think about it, if this was not true, why aren't we all trying to hook up with each other, since all of us are so nice and would do anything for anyone? Just think about it...
gavinus Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 LOL, its because (I can only speak for me) most people on here are broken hearted and need to heal, learn from the past and NOT get involved again! Sometimes the honesty of strangers shows the way p.s. it is a good idea though
e.clipse Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 well, i am married to burning4revenge who is a fellow poster. before my broken heart, i knew him not. however, after joining LS, we met and, well, now here we are--wedded and all.
Northwesthunny Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I agree with Gavin.....we arent on here (well me personally) to hook up with anyone - we are on here to get help and guideance on how to deal with the situation we are all in! Im not looking to be with anyone else, its not a good thing to do when you still have feelings for someone else. And can i also say that my ex was NOT an arse, he did NOT treat me bad and i can not say a bad thing about him as the relationship itself was not bad at all. I have been split up from him since June. He went out to afghan and decided then that he couldnt do it - so not all relationships end because the other person didnt treat them well
WSeeker Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I would like to quote someone: ,,It blows my mind the extent to which many humans are un-evolved. My sense is as follows:- the basic problem is that so many people are so non-self-actualized or so devoid of emotional refinement...to the extent that relationships are actually not clearly possible. When people operate at the simplistic level of need, mutually mature relationships are not possible. I have always maintained that IF YOU NEED TO BE LOVED, YOU ARE DOOMED. When you don't NEED, you can have great relationships. You will also have enough control to choose those psychologically clear minded humans with whom to interact. The likely state of many readers would be to dismiss these comments as academic and abstract. But as long as people remain emotionally unrefined and unresolved, intra-relationships will never work. On the issue of remaining friends with an ex, if all I have indicated above prevails, then the efficacy of friendship with an ex stands or falls accordingly. The question is: are you emotionally mature or not? Is your ex? If you had been friends, who, in the spirit of friendship enjoyed the fullness of Being, would you break up? Why? The question, as you can see, comes complete with its answer. It is NOT the relationship. It is about WHO you are. If you were the best human you could be, you could replicate yourself in the one you chose. Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are. Do you know who you are? If not, wait until you do. Your choice represents a total sum of you. Your choice of another represents your expression of value. For at any given time, a person is the total sum of his or her consciousness. What you do not know could destroy you. I challenge great thinkers to disprove my thinking... ,, Godfrey Silas
burning 4 revenge Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 well, i am married to burning4revenge who is a fellow poster. before my broken heart, i knew him not. however, after joining LS, we met and, well, now here we are--wedded and all.its been a lovely marriage too...probably because we live in different parts of the country and have never met each other its made for virtually no conflict or expectations
livingnightmare Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Any women from Birmingham uk on here? :)
Citizen Erased Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 well, i am married to burning4revenge who is a fellow poster. before my broken heart, i knew him not. however, after joining LS, we met and, well, now here we are--wedded and all. I am so jealous. He looks like the guy in my avatar you know. Shades and banana included. I would pretty much never want to start anything with anyone on here. Mainly because I don't want to move to the US and also because where else would I go to complain about them?
Broseph Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Any women from Birmingham uk on here? :) LOL too funny
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