sweet_peach115 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I moved across the country for my boyfriend when he was offered a new job. Things didn't really work out but we are still together on the verge of breakup. I took a trip back across the country to visit some friends and ended up spending a lot of time with one of my guy friends and we really connected. He told me he thinks I am special and that he really likes me and I really like him too. Now that my trip has ended I cannot stop thinking about him!! I feel like I am losing my mind. The feelings are overwhelming. I am facebook creeping him all day and I feel like a psycho. My best friends are trying to convince me to move back and I am seriously considering it. The only problem is that I am so scared to quit my job, sever all ties with my semi-ex (3yrs together) and start a new life back on the other side of the country. My family is here where I am living now. I need advice!!!
stace79 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 The best thing you can do for both of you is to move on. You should never stay with someone because you are afraid of the consequences of leaving. That is not fair to him, and you are robbing yourself of potential happiness. Sure, it is possible that you have a case of "the grass is greener," but it sounds like your current R is pretty bad off anyway. I suggest that you end your R and if necessary move back where you have family/friends for support. However, do NOT rush into a new R with this new guy. You need to take time to figure out what you want and to get over your break up. Nobody wants to be a rebound! Good luck.
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