Scarlett513 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Another reason I hate texting. I met a guy over the weekend thru mutual friends. Made out but I told him upfront I wasn't going to sleep with him. It was actually romantic, he acted like a gentleman, held my hand, and we talked for hours. We'd both been drinking. He asked me numerous times during that night to hang out with him again, and (probably stupidly) I believed he was sincere in that, despite the alcohol. He took my number, called me when he got home and texted when I didn't pick up. By that point I'd already fallen asleep so I replied via text in the morning. That day and the next day, we texted back and forth a bit. He kept busting on me that I had "picked him up" (not true, but I took it as joking). Finally I told him that since he was so convinced I made the first move, the next move would be his. Some more joking around, and then he says, "all joking aside" that this week is really busy for him so it might not be the best and asks what my schedule looks like. I reply telling him the few nights I'm free this week and that next week is less busy for me. That was 24 hours ago and I haven't heard from him since. He's a friend of my good friend's boyfriend. My friend doesn't like many of her boyfriend's friends but actually said I should give this one a shot, he's a nice guy, but that he's kind of socially awkward. Am I getting blown off or am I over-reacting? I feel like this is a classic "he's just not that into you" but on the other hand I've been burned so many times I might just be expecting the worst.
boogieboy Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 Its only been 1 night? relax, if he doesnt contact you before next week, then you have something to worry about.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 IMO, there hasn't been a whole lot invested in this, yet - only one night where you guys kissed. 24 hours (or even more) without a text is not a big deal. Relax...guys appreciate chill girls. They don't think about this stuff as much as girls do. So hang in there. I imagine by the weekend you should either hear something or get your answer about "HJNTITY" by way of no text.
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