john1988 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Not sure where to post this, it's like a breaking up of a friendship so have just put it in this section. I have been friends with a girl for years we dated for a short while but things didn't really work out. We got on brilliantly she used to call me her best friend and we were always out having a laugh I think she may have been interested in me again but at the time I had went through a bad break up and plus I see her more as a friend. When she started dating again I only really ever heard from her when things went badly with boyfriends etc whereas I was always inviting her whenever I went to which she would mostly say no to. I saw her outside my flat drinking staggering about not too long ago and my town is far away from her, so surely if she was coming through for a night out she would let me know? but the final straw came when she didn't invite me out for her bday I found that extremely strange. I snapped and refused to speak to her for months until I eventually sent her a light hearted apology poem through email, that was weeks ago and I haven't had a response. I miss her company, do you think I overreacted I just feel it's all one way these days and she only contacts me for selfish reasons? Can anyone advise me because I do miss her company I hope I haven't lost a friend.
Chrome Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Do you think maybe she might really like you and possibly not want to hang out so much because she knows you dont see her that way and possibly feels a little awkward. I think i might be inclined to write her again and ask if she's ok, maybe explain why you snapped and how you felt at the time. It might just be a case of hurt feelings why she hasnt contacted you. You do seem to care about this girl. Offering her the hand of friendship again might not be such a bad idea. She might not realize that you value her friendship and enjoy her company as much as you do. Cant hurt to try again surely?
Author john1988 Posted September 22, 2009 Author Posted September 22, 2009 It has obviously crossed my mind about her having feelings for me but I would be too embarrassed to ask, it's an awkward convo. I might give it another go the way I left it was let's call a truce it's silly to be enemies kind of thing. I'm aware if she's confused how she feels it may be difficult for her to become friends so that's how I kind of left it how I did, I didn't want to force the issue.
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