lost09 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 I'm 25, have a great job, and i live with my girlfriend - we have been in a relationship for 5 years. I can't figure out where my unhappiness is coming from. I've thought about ending the relationship, but im not sure if thats the right decision. I'm been feeling like im bored with life, everything is just so predictable now. Is being single the answer or is there another answer to this?
Ross PK Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 You could be depressed. Maybe you could talk to your doctor about it and see what he thinks.
Dooda Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Wow, are you feeling depressed? Do you feel like life has no point anymore? Maybe you're just not happy with your girlfriend now. Try and tell her what you're feeling, and how you're feeling bored with life. If you have a great job, then take time to take time for yourself. Take a vacation, go some place that you'll like. Try and change up the routine of your life. We all feel bored with life at some point, and it's usually because not enough is going on in it. It's the same bland routine of wake up, do what you got to do, sleep. Wake up, do what you got to do, sleep. And so on... You can change that, though. Find somethings to freshen up your life again. Hope this helps, and good luck in finding the 'fun' in your life again .
GrayClouds Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I'm 25, have a great job, and i live with my girlfriend - we have been in a relationship for 5 years. I can't figure out where my unhappiness is coming from. I've thought about ending the relationship, but im not sure if thats the right decision. I'm been feeling like im bored with life, everything is just so predictable now. Is being single the answer or is there another answer to this? I suspect if you end the relationship you will still feel the same or worst. Change for change sake often leads to just more questions. Have you tried to make changes with yourself first such as new exercise plan, new hobbies, taking a class? Have you talk to your girlfriend about your boredom? See if she notice a change in you that could reinforce a depression issue. Ask her for her help to get you out of your rut.
Odyssey Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 Is it a case of boredom or lack of challenge? undervalued?
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