Darren09 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 okay i made it to about 11days NC, I broke it because i got a text off her saying that she still loved me and that she wanted me in her life. she talked to me for about a day.... also rang me a couple of times. then as soon as this sunday came round she said sorry am busy cant talk...... so i have left it at that and shes not spoken to me again. 2days later and am sat thinking what a fool i fell for it?? I try so hard to keep NC but am just not strong enough cause am still in love with her. what a cruel thing to say tho sayin she still loves me?? its quite obvious she doesnt. what next?? NC?? yet whats point am having a real hard time sticking to it.
rp123 Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 Hang in there Darren! I've been 13days now NC, and still struggling so much. Somehow though my own dignity is preventing me from contacting her. If we look after ourselves first, we will be more attractive to them! Stay strong, and maintain some dignity!! Feeling for you.
Nedved Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 rp123 is right darren. You'l get more respect by not contacting her when she gets in touch. It seems your her comfort blanket and when she's feeling down and she is bringing you in and out of her life when she feels like it. She's using you to make herself feel good and being very cruel about it to. As hard as its is the only way you can fight back now is not contacting her and the majour test will come when she contacts you because by the sounds of it she will. You can do it. 11 days was a great achievement. You can get there again. As hard as its is you k now waht you have to do and its for the best. Your only putting yourself through more pain and getting your hopes up each time she makes contact. You'l thank yourself later when you go NC.
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