Sam Spade Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 Sam Spade, why do you think it's amusing to be offensive and hateful towards women in general and mothers specifically? It is funny because only an "uptight American woman" would take it that seriously As for me, while I'm not a card-carrying member of the paranoid hate movement, I think I've some legitimate reasons to be wary of the whole process.
Author Mahatma Posted September 25, 2009 Author Posted September 25, 2009 Yes, sometimes viewing negativity, brings questions to mind. The only problem is that marriage is all about love, trust, respect, commitment, friendship and a healthy dose of pragmatism. I do recommend that no one marry young. Take your time, date around and have relationships, get your career underway, get financially secure and when you find the right person for you, do get married if that's what you want to do, but protect your assets via prenup. If your partner won't sign one, she's not the one for you. A natural filter. Having said all that, if your entire perspective on women and/or marriage is negative, I restress that most def., no one should get married. I love her a lot. If me and her would be exactly like we are now forever, I'd marry her now. However, I know we both have to graduate, start careers, and start settling down in our lives before either of us should get married. To me, getting married is a significant tie down. If I am in a spot that I would like to be tied down, then I'd do it, but that is a long ways away. I wouldn't be surprised though if she was still with me out of college, but no reason to rush anything... I am perfectly happy with her the way things are now.
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