moet70 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 My ex came over on the weekend to help me lift an old tv into my car, I asked him to help out and he said "sure no problem happy to lend a bit of muscle" He stayed for two hours, general chit chat... When he went to go I walked him out and he lingered by his car still chatting, started leaning on his car...chatting.....then said he had to go - had to do some washing. Any ideas if he is still interested or just being friendly?
Pyro Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Maybe. How long were you two together and how long since the break-up?
Author moet70 Posted September 22, 2009 Author Posted September 22, 2009 We only dated for 6 weeks...over christmas He broke it off as he freaked, turns out he has commitment phobia - 37 never had a relationship longer than 6 months, never lived with a girl, etc..some un diagnosed mental health issue there, he admits he freaks out and also has no desire to get married or have children. we rekindled at Easter...his doing, he ended it a week later again. I said lets just be friends... we went on a holiday together for a week in May, just friends , but was really hard for me...as I still had feelings... we catch up every few weeks...probably me contact him more than anything... I am dating others and he knows this...I think he wants me to be happy. I am still very attracted to him
Pyro Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 I would have to say no he is not interested. He clearly has commitment issues. He is just being friendly from what it sounds like.
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