logitech Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Sometimes we need to hear the bad with the good otherwise we start believing in fairy tales...
EarthGirl Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I have to ask, what does it matter at this point if he did have some emotional connections with them or not? It doesn't change things for the OP and how she is feeling. Because I have been on both sides...I have been the one cheated on, and I have been the "OW" (though I was not aware when I got into it) who was marginalized by the other woman involved by her saying that I meant nothing to him and was just a whore and a loser, just to make herself feel better. I am sure I am taking this too personally, after all I could identify just as much with EP as with the floozies...I don't know her or anything about her. I'm sorry for hijacking the thread. I really hope you feel much better EP, hang in there, I did not mean to hurt you. You are very special, I can tell, don't let anybody make you think you are not. I won't post again on this thread..just to make sure this doesn't get any further, I am sure I have said all I needed to (and some stuff I shouldn't have) anyway.
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