malgosh Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 So... basically what I have is a nice relationship with my wife. We hardly ever fight. Has never been a thought of cheating since she has always had a low sex drive. 10+ years together. We actually probably average sex life. Once a week if that I always initiate. She doesnt really enjoy sex much but tries to please. Anyway... I always let her know I like it when she is shaved "down there". It excites me. Well of course she will do it like once a month after I bug her time and again. To get to the point.... this week she went on a overnight trip some girlfriends that I am familiar with and comfortable with her being with. She was mentioning she needs to shave because the hairs were getting caught, she never did. (for the record.... the area is kindof trimmed but some long hairs are over the entry point.) I mentioned jokingly... yeah sure shave now since your going away for the night. I called it a "just in case" shave. She of course said Im nuts. Well... when she returned from the trip.... she was shaved. I noticed it the next morning while she was getting into the shower and confronted her. I stated ahhhh you shaved huh. She jokingly responded and said ahh no i just did it now giggling. I said whatever..... and continued to go to work. It wasnt a perfect shave job and there were a few hairs still visible in the general area. She stated she only did it only so she wasnt picking at her crotch while she was away. ' Anyway.... Im wondering if im just being jealous for no reason or if I have a legitimate reason. Comments appreciated.
2sure Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 She may just have wanted to be neat in the event she would be swimming in a bathing suit OR in the event she would be dressing in front of her girl friends.
Rylle Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 If you are literally only concerned that she might have cheated, or be about to is because she shaved, then I would have to say that sounds like simple unfounded jealousy to me. And especially since she did a quick, sloppy job. If she was going to the effort because someone else was going to see it, I imagine she'd go to the effort to do a thorough job.
Javelin Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 So... basically what I have is a nice relationship with my wife. We hardly ever fight. Has never been a thought of cheating since she has always had a low sex drive. 10+ years together. We actually probably average sex life. Once a week if that I always initiate. She doesnt really enjoy sex much but tries to please. Anyway... I always let her know I like it when she is shaved "down there". It excites me. Well of course she will do it like once a month after I bug her time and again. To get to the point.... this week she went on a overnight trip some girlfriends that I am familiar with and comfortable with her being with. She was mentioning she needs to shave because the hairs were getting caught, she never did. (for the record.... the area is kindof trimmed but some long hairs are over the entry point.) I mentioned jokingly... yeah sure shave now since your going away for the night. I called it a "just in case" shave. She of course said Im nuts. Well... when she returned from the trip.... she was shaved. I noticed it the next morning while she was getting into the shower and confronted her. I stated ahhhh you shaved huh. She jokingly responded and said ahh no i just did it now giggling. I said whatever..... and continued to go to work. It wasnt a perfect shave job and there were a few hairs still visible in the general area. She stated she only did it only so she wasnt picking at her crotch while she was away. ' Anyway.... Im wondering if im just being jealous for no reason or if I have a legitimate reason. Comments appreciated. Signs of cheating normally stem from a change in character, not a sloppy pubic shave. It begs the question, would you feel jealous if she shaved her legs too? Seriously, think of it this way... You think she's sexy when she shaves, so for her to feel sexy about herself, she shaved! Keep in mind, this was for herself and you when she came home. Now stop overreacting and apologize for being rude to your wife!
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