matt155 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 ok so last night i was on the phone with the girl i am dating. we were talking and all of the sudden i brought up Obama. she is a christian and apparently thinks hes "evil". she hangs up on me and texts me to leave her alone and not talk to her again. Earlier in the day she told me how she liked me so much and wants me in her life forever. I am now a bit confused. did she really not like me and was she looking for an easy way out? or what?
xpaperxcutx Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Either she's a religious fanatic, psychopath, or a very over-the- top liar. And did she really say she wanted to be with you forever? How old are you?
Thaddeus Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Obviously she isn't open-minded enough to tolerate dissenting opinions (that's pretty common for those of Republican ilk - not everyone, of course, but it's not rare). Couples who have different political views can have wonderfully successful marriages. Just look at James Carville and Mary Matalin. Clearly your gf isn't that open-minded. Good riddance.
BCCA Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Dude, either way - you dont want any part of that. Anyone who cant even talk on the phone and has to text 'go away' is unstable anyway. Its not like you were trying to recruit her to the democratic party, you just mentioned his name.
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Love and Politics never mix dude.. If you want to bang a girl then don't bring up politics.. It doesn't have anything to do with Obama, it has everything to do with how emotionally charged people can get over politics. Even in the office at work it is the same way with your coworkers.. Live and Learn...
CaliGuy Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 ok so last night i was on the phone with the girl i am dating. we were talking and all of the sudden i brought up Obama. she is a christian and apparently thinks hes "evil". she hangs up on me and texts me to leave her alone and not talk to her again. Earlier in the day she told me how she liked me so much and wants me in her life forever. I am now a bit confused. did she really not like me and was she looking for an easy way out? or what? Question: How old are both of you?
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Obviously she isn't open-minded enough to tolerate dissenting opinions (that's pretty common for those of Republican ilk - not everyone, of course, but it's not rare). Why that wasn't a very open minded statement Thasdeus, Are you a republican Thad.. that is crap... you just posted a very narrow minded post proving that it is crap.
Author matt155 Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 im 22 shes 21. the weird part is we were so happy with eachother whenever we were around one another. then this. maybe she was just having a bad day
CaliGuy Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 im 22 shes 21. the weird part is we were so happy with eachother whenever we were around one another. then this. maybe she was just having a bad day Immaturity on her part and bad mojo on yours. Don’t talk politics or faith (unless you both share the same faith) until you have been dating for a long time and know each other really well. Chalk this one up to a learning experience.
Chicago_Guy Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Obviously she isn't open-minded enough to tolerate dissenting opinions (that's pretty common for those of Republican ilk - not everyone, of course, but it's not rare). Couples who have different political views can have wonderfully successful marriages. Just look at James Carville and Mary Matalin. Clearly your gf isn't that open-minded. Good riddance. Actually, that statement would accurately describe the most die-hard Democrats I know.
Thaddeus Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 im 22 shes 21. the weird part is we were so happy with eachother whenever we were around one another. then this. maybe she was just having a bad daySure, it's possible she was just having an off day. But hanging up on you and then texting you to leave her alone is pretty rude. Forget the politics of it, that's not really relevant. If she's going to be like this every time you and she have a disagreement, what does that say about how she handles conflict? Whatever you do, don't go crawling back and apologize. That's just rewarding bad behavior.
Author matt155 Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 so should i wait for her to initiate conversation with me. i wasnt going to text or call her anymore due to her telling me to leave her alone. but i have a feeling thats what she wants.
Thaddeus Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 so should i wait for her to initiate conversation with me. i wasnt going to text or call her anymore due to her telling me to leave her alone. but i have a feeling thats what she wants.She told you not to be in contact. Take her at her word. 'nuff said.
dreamergrl Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I sure wouldn't be making contact with her after that crap.
EYECANDY000 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I think anyone who hangs up in someones face is rude and disrespectful. Ive had it happen to me a few times and had to stop it before it got routine. it seems like she was looking for a easy way out. I wouldnt contact her though.
Star Gazer Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Either she's a religious fanatic, psychopath, or a very over-the- top liar. As most Anti-Obamaites are. Haha! Sorry, I couldn't resist. OP, she hung up on you. That's all you need to know. She shouldn't have been so rude and disrespectful.
zilverenvlinder Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Ewww! A psycho right wing nutjob Christian fundie! Run far away! Good riddance! :pats back: You dodged a bullet there, boy!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 leave her alone Probably a good idea to listen to yourself in this case.
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