Beco Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Hey, this is my first post, am in need of some advice please I have been dating this guy for about 2 months, both of us having just come out of long term relationships. We have talked about all this and have both agreed it's crazy that we're getting involved so quickly and yet we cannot seem to stop it. He has been coming to see me whenever he can and me the same. Thing is, I am falling in love and falling hard for this man, haven't told him how deep my feelings are going and not going to yet. Here's my problem... now I'm in love suddenly the fear that I might be a rebound really freaks me out - at the time I didn't listen to what my friends and family were saying, but now feelings have grown it has become a concern. His ex girlfriend moved all her stuff out at the weekend and he told me it was upsetting but it was closure for him, I sat there and was understanding even though I was so jealous and sad. People.. kick me into shape, tell me to pull myself together. I'm in a bit of a state at the moment.
Rylle Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 both of us having just come out of long term relationships. You are both on the rebound. You are his and he is yours.
dreamergrl Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Like most issues, a lot can be be done if you communicate. If you're having these deep feelings, and you don't want to just be a rebound, I think you should let him know. You don't have to tell him you're in love with him, but you can tell him you care a lot about him, and want to know where you stand with him.
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