BettaBites Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I am really confused with my GF. We have been together for three months, first relationship for both of us and we are both 17. One weekend she pretty much blew me off and said she was 'busy' (I would of been fine if she said I want some alone time but because she lied to me I was a bit down) but the week after that weekend at school she was fine, the next weekend she tells me she loves me and misses me lots then this weekend I asked if she wanted to do something, it sounded as if she was going to blow me off again. So on the Friday I called her and she said "Yeah those plans got cancelled so we can do something tomorrow". I know if she was asking me if I wanted to do something and I couldn't because I had plans and then they got cancelled, I would call/text her and tell her the plans have been canceled and ask if she still wants to do something. I asked her why she never asks me if I want to do anything (I always have to ask her) and she said she didn't want to sound clingy. When I went over to her house, we kissed and cuddled for 12 hours so its not like she doesn't like me. What is the deal do you reckon? What should I say? What does all this mean?
boogieboy Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Shes not that into you. Whats happening is-when she isnt physically with you, she's not thinking of you. Someone else is getting her full attention. She is calling some other guy and making plans for her and him. You are the backup when he blows her off. So you can keep seeing her knowing this, but dont put any stake on this relationship. In fact, if you have any other girls around that actually like you alot, dump this tramp and go get one of them.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Shes not that into you. Whats happening is-when she isnt physically with you, she's not thinking of you. Someone else is getting her full attention. She is calling some other guy and making plans for her and him. You are the backup when he blows her off. So you can keep seeing her knowing this, but dont put any stake on this relationship. In fact, if you have any other girls around that actually like you alot, dump this tramp and go get one of them. I agree with Boogie. She doesn't see you as a priority even though you guys are in a relationship.
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