bluesky123 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 So I've been strict NC for almost four months, last time we spoke was the day she dumped me. We talked everyday for 2 1/2 years , I can't believe she yet to make an attempt to contact me. Most people on the forum have some sort of contact. It's weird, everybody I talk to thinks the same, what do you all think ?
Exit Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I felt the same way. Seems like a good majority of the people on this forum say "even though my ex dumped me, they're still texting/calling!". My ex didn't show a single sign of interest in 5 months. Maybe I didn't give her enough of a chance, I was always contacting her, but I bet even if I had left her completely alone, I never would have heard from her.
zilverenvlinder Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 When my ex broke up with me last year, we were living together. He said, "I don't think I want to do this anymore." I said, fine. I left and went to my dad's house for a month. I knew my ex's schedule so I got my stuff when he was at work. I didn't speak to him for three months. Then he called me and told me he was on a date with some whore and he was drunk and driving, and he couldn't believe he broke up with me, and that he wanted me back, and I told him basically to f--ck off and I haven't spoken to him since.
GrayClouds Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 When my ex broke up with me last year, we were living together. He said, "I don't think I want to do this anymore." I said, fine. I left and went to my dad's house for a month. I knew my ex's schedule so I got my stuff when he was at work. I didn't speak to him for three months. Then he called me and told me he was on a date with some whore and he was drunk and driving, and he couldn't believe he broke up with me, and that he wanted me back, and I told him basically to f--ck off and I haven't spoken to him since. I like that story!
jaybird1043 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I talked to my ex one week after we broke up, we said we would do lunch the next day, she never returned my call or text since...its been 7 weeks...A really hard,sad, heart-breaking 7 weeks
Beeotch Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 So I've been strict NC for almost four months, last time we spoke was the day she dumped me. We talked everyday for 2 1/2 years , I can't believe she yet to make an attempt to contact me. Most people on the forum have some sort of contact. It's weird, everybody I talk to thinks the same, what do you all think ? I guess usually the exs make an appearance in some small way in 4 months....but there is no rule to it. I don't know the details and alas I am not her but there could be many reasons for this.
Author bluesky123 Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 I thought things were fine, one night she loved me the next day she did not love me. We had a our little tiffs, she said she needs to know what she wants out of life, career husband etc. Very shocking. I respected her never begged and let her be. But it bothers me, something happend.
jaybird1043 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I think the hardest thing about being dumped is the abandonment, its one day everything is normal than the next day, without having any say you are all alone! If we are really honest with ourselves, we know that we saw there problems, it doesn't make it any better though. I want to call/ or look at my ex's facebook in the worst way tonight, but instead I'm here, this is better and is not going to hurt me unlike the other options.
adamt Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Me ex left me about 4 months ago, apart from 1 text 1 week after break up i have not heard from my ex. She doesnt even go on MSN anymore. I guess it just shows that when she broke up with me she had wanted to break up for a while. No 2nd thoughts. Makes you see them in a different light. She does go to the same pubs anymore. I remember 2 weeks after we broke up she was on MSN at same time as me and she never said hello or how i was doing. SO i knew then that she wasnt going to keep intouch. Its so hard to understand that someone can just cut all those years together out of their life so easily.
boogieboy Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I thought things were fine, one night she loved me the next day she did not love me. We had a our little tiffs, she said she needs to know what she wants out of life, career husband etc. Very shocking. I respected her never begged and let her be. But it bothers me, something happend. it wasnt just one day then the next, she had been planning it for months. You just ignored the signs. Trust me, nbo contact is much better. #1. shes not contacting you because she doesnt want you to cling to her again, plus she moved on. #2. This will help you get over her faster. If you stay in contact with her, it will take you much too long to get over her because you will still be hoping. Youre lucky your ex is doing you the favor of not contacting you...my ex kept texting me every week just so I would answer her to boost her ego, so that she knew I still wanted her back. What a bitch.
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