dianna Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 So i've come to this point : the letting go. I've lost all my hope, I've also lost a part of me , Im still depressed but Im getting a little better day by day ...sort of Funny thing is ..today I actually said : Ok Dianna, that's it. Give it a rest and when I looked at the date ..I got depressed again . If we were still togheter today we would celebrate our 2 and 8 month relationship. F***. So after almost 3 months of break up i gave up hope and i feel lonely as hell I miss touching, kissing, hugging,i love you's,etc etc ..it's going to be hard because we start college and we are in the same class..blah Anyway..my question is..when did you gave up hope? after 1 month,2months ..etc etc.. Im going back to drink my cuba libre..yhaa......
mr heartbroken Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 There is no set time. I have been wothout my ex for about 7months and its just hitting me that i dont think we will be together anymore. It kills me and i just want to break down all the time. sometimes i cant function right. She wasnt that great a person but yet i still love her so much. Thing is a have spoken to her so many times about us and what we could do blah blah. she still wants to be friends for me that will never happen it cant happen. Every day brings new things. as time goes on you will will have one bad day and 3 good then after a while you will have 1 bad and four good. Just need to give it time.
Exit Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 Wow, I'm sorry that you are going to have the same class as him. Any way to request a transfer? Seeing him is probably going to suck, unless you are over him enough to the point that you'll be able to look at him and think "yeah, I'm not missing much". You don't want it to affect your attention in class. I've only given up now after 5 months. Been pursuing her since April. All my friends see the amazing changes I have made, but she refused to give me a chance.
Nedved Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I think in an ideal word once our ex breaks up with us we should give up hope right away but as we all know thats is'nt always possible. I'm broken up now over 4 months and it prob took me a good 6 weeks to two months to finally see that she's moved on with her life without me and i'm no longer part if the plans. Its not easy but NC and a clean break is the only way to let go quicker and realise that the ex prob is'nt coming back. Another final reminder i got was about a month a go when i all of a sudden got memories of her and started feeling sorry for myself. She then texted me out of the blue a few days later and told me she's met somebody and he'd be at the wedding with her of a a mutual friend(she never showed up for whatever reason). But that was the final slap in the face i needed and since then i've been flying!!
D-Lish Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 You will know that you are over it when you can look at him and feel indifference. Everyone heals on different timelines. It's unfortunate you have to see him in class all the time- can you switch some courses maybe?
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