Clep Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 So my boyfriend and I go out every weekend for dinner and dancing. This weekend he says he just wants to stay home which is completely uncharacteristic for him. Then he forgets that he had a birthday party to go to at the club we always go to on Friday nights. It is just to get the others into the club of course. Now today he forgets about two functions he has to go to....one of them being his brother's birthday. If it wasn't about spending time to himself he would have invited me. It would be so much better if he was to just say he wants to do something by himself this weekend. Personal freedom is a necessity in any relationship as I recognize and value. I would just use the time to do other things. I am so pissed off that he would feed me this crap as it does not create a scenario of trust. Since trust is the foundation of a relationship I don't feel real good about this. It isn't like he has once threw it out on the table that he wants to hang with the boys without me there so it can't be because of past experience with me. Usually he creates an argument and then doesn't want to see me because of that or does what he did today.Must be experiences with others he has been with weeding it's way into our relationship. He says I am way off base but I say he is transparent and doesn't know it. How many others have dealt with this and what did you do about it, if anything?
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