gw326 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 It seems as if my wife and i are going to work on our marriage.She broke the news to me earlier tonight.I was originally planning on being back in October,but have decided to be there for my oldest sons birthday party next weekend.She broke things off with the OM,and we have talked a lot the past few days.I truely believe the NC works as i tried to do so as much as possible.I made myself a better person overall and she has realized it.She told me there was something always there between us.She was just upset with me because of the things i was doing (not working,verbal abuse from both of us,etc.).Whatever happens from there happens.I'm glad she wants to work things out,but i'm even happier i get to see my kids again.I hope you all find happiness again,whether its with your spouse or with someone else.Never give up hope.
ryepatch Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 that's fantastic! i'm going to go over your old posts and see what i can learn. there is hope, huh? make sure you stick with the good changes and don't fall into the old patterns, and don't rush it, i've seen a couple people who rushed it and it didn't work so well. bona fortuna!
mark982 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 i'll agree don't rush it. while i can understand your happiness,she had alot of money problems while seperated,and also problems with the om. just keep your eyes wide open,and good luck.
Author gw326 Posted September 20, 2009 Author Posted September 20, 2009 Thanks,yeah,i'm not rushing it.I'm going to still do the same things i have been doing.I hope things work out,and i'll do my best to work on it.The feelings have to be mutual for it to work though.Going to take it one day at a time and go from there.As of now i'm excited i get to see my boys again.
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