Chike Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost a month and i really like her. she told me that i'm moving to slow in the relationship and i'm not really sure how to move faster. she's my first girlfriend and she likes a touchy touchy guy. I'm afraid that if i dont move faster i might lose her.
stepka Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Well, have you kissed her yet? If not, you're def moving too slow. Does she like to hold hands more? Do that, and touch her more often. Or is she wanting sex already? (she probably won't tell you that!) If so, read a Harlequin romance novel and learn how to sweep her off her feet. And lay in some birth control. Assuming that's what you want too. I'm an old-fashioned mom type though, so don't take that last advice unless you're both over 18.
Thaddeus Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 If so, read a Harlequin romance novel and learn how to sweep her off her feet.I sincerely hope that the quoted bit is supposed to be ironic. Chike, if she says you're moving too slow, then she's right. Ramp it up. Get more physically affectionate (in private, not in public unless it's just holding hands or something like that).
Author Chike Posted September 19, 2009 Author Posted September 19, 2009 Well, have you kissed her yet? If not, you're def moving too slow. Does she like to hold hands more? Do that, and touch her more often. Or is she wanting sex already? (she probably won't tell you that!) If so, read a Harlequin romance novel and learn how to sweep her off her feet. And lay in some birth control. Assuming that's what you want too. I'm an old-fashioned mom type though, so don't take that last advice unless you're both over 18. unfortunately i haven't kissed yet
Tony T Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 unfortunately i haven't kissed yet Yes, you are moving extremely slow. You should have kissed her on the first or second date. By now there should be sex. I gather you are terribly inexperienced with women. It might be good for you to talk to a male friend you trust and respect and have him fill you in on what women expect and when. Some like to move more slowly than others but I don't know a woman on Planet Earth who would allow you to call her your GIRLFRIEND if you haven't at least kissed her yet. YIKES!
NopeNah Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 unfortunately i haven't kissed yet yea..might want to step it up a few notch's!
Author Chike Posted September 19, 2009 Author Posted September 19, 2009 I know next time i see her its going up a few notchs
stepka Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I sincerely hope that the quoted bit is supposed to be ironic. Only a little bit Thaddeus. Try it sometime--it really is what women want--I posted about this in another thread, and though I don't read them myself, I must admit, I'd love to be swept off my feet harlequin style. From the sound of your other posts though, it doesn't sound like you need much help in that dept. This poor kid obviously could use some advice about what women want.
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