buttercupoif Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Ok I really need some help. I am a solder serving in Iraq. I will be home in 3 week and I called my gf of 5 years lastnight and she told me she didn't knw if she was ready to be married.(somthing i planed on asking her when I got home.) Then she hit me with a big bomb saying that she kissed another guy who she has feelings for. she said that she wants to wait tell I get home and see how things go because she doesn't know if these feelings are real or if she is just having them because I have been gone for so long. The thought of ending the relationship is not something that I like the sound of but she really hurt me and I dont know where to go from here please if anyone can help please do.
NopeNah Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 First...stay safe and thank you for your service. Now..If I were you I'd end it with her asap. That's just completely messed up! I know it happens a lot to you guys that are deployed but, damn! For her to tell you while you're still there is even worse..take care and be safe!
mark982 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 some women just don't have no damn class. whatever her feeling are/were she should off keep her mouth shut till you were outta harms way. buddy, i thank you for your service, but do yourself a favor and toss her to the curb,hell i wouldn't even tell her when i'm coming back. stay safe.
boldjack Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I'm a VET, and this type of thing has happened to lots of GI's. You thought she was being faithful, when all of the time she was seeing other men , while you were gone. You deserve way better than this girl. Dump her and find somebody you can trust. Keep your head down!!! Good Luck, Bro.
BackonTrack2 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 First...stay safe and thank you for your service. Now..If I were you I'd end it with her asap. That's just completely messed up! I know it happens a lot to you guys that are deployed but, damn! For her to tell you while you're still there is even worse..take care and be safe! I don't know what to say to you. Kiss a guy means she fawking him and probably sucking his balls. Your relationship is over. Best to hit the ground running, when you get back don't visit her. Try to find someone else. Thank you for serving in Iraq. Come home safe.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 First of all, make sure you stay safe until you get home, you don't want to stress out over her while you're over there. I'm sorry your gf did what she did, and there's no excusing her actions. Best yet, you should just break it off with her because she's obviously unable to stay faithful while you're off fighting for your country.
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