ThinkingAboutHer Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I am a freshman in college, and my girl friend from high school is across the country. I love her so much, and she feels the same way about me. We talk every day on the phone, text eachother and send letters. But something is still missing. We still laugh with eachother and love eachother and I miss her soooo much. But for some reason I feel like we cannot connect as well on the phone. Its never awkward, but sometimes it feels like we run out of things to say, which never ever happened before. We tell eachother about what's going on in our lives but it seems like we can't be our goofy selves on the phone, and our conversations are more restrained. I am bad at talking on the phone... what can i do???
Island Girl Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Some of those here play games with each other online - they watch movies together - they try to do activities so they spend time "together" but without the constant pressure of talking to fill the time. I would think that would make things much more natural and may help you since you don't like talking on the phone. Maybe others can chime in with more suggestions and give you the help you seek.
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