mr heartbroken Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Hey, Its been seven months since we split. We recently met up and talked about getting back together. never really worked out. I am now starting to see that she want's things that i cant give her. I am now starting to see that i really might be over. it's her birthday on sunday and i will post a card and wish her well. The thing is even though i kinda think it might be over. I still want and miss her really badly. I have started thinking about aall the small things we did. all the weird things the jokes and laugh's. I just want it back. However i now understand that i wont have it back with her. I want to meet someone else but i am affraid that if i do that then it really means its over... Sorry about the rant its just what i am thinking about. rather put it on here instead of telling her my feelings again.
RedDevil66 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 what are the things she wants that you cannot give her?
Author mr heartbroken Posted September 20, 2009 Author Posted September 20, 2009 what are the things she wants that you cannot give her? Hi, I cant give her the nice home, the secure life. M ex is better with money than me just a fact. when i get it i spend. i Spoiked her. She has met a guy with a good job and as far as i am awhare he coms from a good background, just random stuff. I hate the fact i cant stop thinking about her, i had a dream about her tonight and it was amazing. then i woke up.. its been seven months and a cant move on.
Maxwell Sage Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I'm going through something similar. I had four of those dreams/ nightmares... only to find out that my ex had been seeing someone for over a month, right after I finally confessed to her that I had dreamt about us being together again and awoken in agony... F*ck... My ex moved on from me because she, like your ex, found someone with a verrry solid background and mannnny similar interests that she and I never shared. It is what it is, man... This was the only real relationship I've been in and we lived together for 2.5 years... Today would have been our 3 year anniversary, hence the reason I'm here to cope with the thoughts. All I can say is it is what it is. It didn't work for a reason, and eventually we'll both stumble upon someone with whom things actually work.
EmperorR Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Hi, I cant give her the nice home, the secure life. M ex is better with money than me just a fact. when i get it i spend. i Spoiked her. She has met a guy with a good job and as far as i am awhare he coms from a good background, just random stuff. I hate the fact i cant stop thinking about her, i had a dream about her tonight and it was amazing. then i woke up.. its been seven months and a cant move on. You don't need a women like that, she sounds very materialistic
RedDevil66 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 Funny, I loved my ex's and they could not give me those things, but I never wanted those things from them. I worked my butt off and got the things I wanted. What I wanted from my men was love, respect and a good heart. Do you think she really left because you could not give her those things? Do you work? Do you have low self esteem?
Author mr heartbroken Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 Funny, I loved my ex's and they could not give me those things, but I never wanted those things from them. I worked my butt off and got the things I wanted. What I wanted from my men was love, respect and a good heart. Do you think she really left because you could not give her those things? Do you work? Do you have low self esteem? Yeah i work infact i have two jobs. I am not the most confident person in the world but i can hold my own. I really need to move on but i am just f**%$ed up about it. I really cant see where i am going and who i will be with and that scrare's me. I am not the type of person to jump into bed with someone just for the sake of it. sad but i love and miss my ex and even though she has said somw nasty things i dont even hate her... I really want to move on but my head is a million miles away from it.
Author mr heartbroken Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 Do you think she really left because you could not give her those things? sorry forgot to reply to this part. Yeah i think that she wants matrial things and she knows how to get it. On the other hand she swore and still does sware blind that there wasnt anyone else that made her split with me but at the back of my head i still think there might have been.
RedDevil66 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 All I can say is, this hurts like H*LL now, but when you get over this (and you will) you will see that you dodged a bullet with this one. She doesn't sound like a "beautiful" person at all. If there was or wasn't someone, the point is she wants someone to take care of her needs, because she is too weak to take care of her own needs.
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