BrokenHeartGirl Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 my boyfriend broke up with me neer the end of augest, he said he needed time to think about the relationship and needed space. me being the person i am did the exact oposit without thinking (i thought he meant physical space) so i would text him everyday begging for him back for weeks, eventually he got so sick of me he just got really pissed told me to **** off deleted me off facebook and stoped talking to me all togheter. now less then a month after we broke up he is already dating someone else... will it last? could he still have feelings for me? is it just a rebound? or a way to get me to leave him alone?... i havent talked to him since they started dating (about a week ago). she also just came out of a relationship recently and they havent known eachother long, so im doubting the seriousniss of the relationship.
fofiffs Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 its a rebound, so i doubt its even going to last. My ex did the same to me after she broke up with me. Not even after three weeks after the break up she hooks up with some dude and says how amazing and how much she loves him. Three months later she breaks up with him. The best thing you can probably do at this point is move on and stick to NC.
Author BrokenHeartGirl Posted September 19, 2009 Author Posted September 19, 2009 but what if i want him to come back to me?...
fofiffs Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 but what if i want him to come back to me?... I hate to put it to you this way but he is not coming back. Sometimes its just easier if we let o than just cause more pain for ourselves by having false hope. Take me for instance, I was where you were at months ago longing for her to come back but she never did. I lost my dignity and self respect trying so hard to get her back and always wondering the what ifs. Well its been almost 7 months and here I am moving on with my life. Its hard at first but its what you do to occupy your time and how you set your mind that its done and over with. Life is to short, so enjoy your time and stop worrying about him. There is always an end to the pain.
NopeNah Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 but what if i want him to come back to me?... Why the hell would you want that to happen? He left you for someone else and you want him back?
Author BrokenHeartGirl Posted September 20, 2009 Author Posted September 20, 2009 because i love him?... and i basically pushed him into her arms by being so needy.
GrayClouds Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 my boyfriend broke up with me neer the end of augest, he said he needed time to think about the relationship and needed space. me being the person i am did the exact oposit without thinking (i thought he meant physical space) so i would text him everyday begging for him back for weeks, eventually he got so sick of me he just got really pissed told me to **** off deleted me off facebook and stoped talking to me all togheter. now less then a month after we broke up he is already dating someone else... will it last? could he still have feelings for me? is it just a rebound? or a way to get me to leave him alone?... i havent talked to him since they started dating (about a week ago). she also just came out of a relationship recently and they havent known eachother long, so im doubting the seriousniss of the relationship. You got to except he is gone, your just prolonging your pain. If there is any chance of him coming back it will becouse your a happy, healthy and proudly secure in being independent. Read the follwing and start doing what is says now: So you want a second chance?
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