JNE Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Ok so I am a freshman in college and I met this wonderful girl at a required workshop. We had a great conversation and I let her know that and she agreed. Then the next time that she saw me, she asked me to have lunch with her. We had lunch outside on a bench. it went well. then i asked her to show me around town and she did. more fun Then another time I invited her to dinner. she gave me her number and said to call to set it up. and it was just going to be us but some mutual girl friends saw us and asked to join. i ok'ed it. but we didnt get to talk much that day. When we returned to the dorm, I waited til our friends left and then I gave her a hug. after that she suggested we do some homework together and we did. we had another great conversation. Then I took her to a basketball court and showed her how to play basketball. we had a great time. i got behind her and showed her how to shoot. afterwards, i asked her to lunch and we are going to have lunch on sunday. What would you call this? Are we dating? I was hoping to ask her to be my girlfriend at lunch. please help. I don't have a lot of experience and so I am open to all advice. this has all been a learning experience for me.
serialdating Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I think you are just one kiss away to "officially" call her your girlfirend...
Astrology_asian_guy Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Ok so I am a freshman in college and I met this wonderful girl at a required workshop. We had a great conversation and I let her know that and she agreed. Then the next time that she saw me, she asked me to have lunch with her. We had lunch outside on a bench. it went well. then i asked her to show me around town and she did. more fun Then another time I invited her to dinner. she gave me her number and said to call to set it up. and it was just going to be us but some mutual girl friends saw us and asked to join. i ok'ed it. but we didnt get to talk much that day. When we returned to the dorm, I waited til our friends left and then I gave her a hug. after that she suggested we do some homework together and we did. we had another great conversation. Then I took her to a basketball court and showed her how to play basketball. we had a great time. i got behind her and showed her how to shoot. afterwards, i asked her to lunch and we are going to have lunch on sunday. What would you call this? Are we dating? I was hoping to ask her to be my girlfriend at lunch. please help. I don't have a lot of experience and so I am open to all advice. this has all been a learning experience for me. first of all, you will need to know her Zodiac sign. If you find that your and her totally matches, then it a yes..you two should match perfectly.
JustLooking123 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Sounds like she is interested, since she had made efforts to spend one-on-one time with you. I'd start to move things along a bit, e.g. kiss her after the date or at some point if the mood is right. If the moment does not come, then ask her out again, but make sure it's not for lunch (dinner and/or drinks or a movie or something in the evening). Then, make some sort of physical move.
D-Lish Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 You have to get to a kiss first to even think about calling her your gf- but you are on the right track. Time for a kiss man....
onlinedater143 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Don't think about your inexperienced situation, if you really want the girl do the move so you can have her, after all you will lose nothing in trying. If you want to know some tips and tricks in dating, just go to the links you will see below and you will see wonderful tips that I bet you won't regret. Good luck boy!
CaliGuy Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Sounds like you're doing fine to me. Just remember, think with your big head (brain) and not your little one. Make friends and figure out WHO she is, not WHAT she is and you'll be a-ok.
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velq Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 It sounds good, but take it slow. After a date at night, I'd say go for the kiss; that'll clear things up. If it doesn't work, don't fret; it's college, you can find another fast. Good luck.
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