MoscaVia Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 My H and I decided to stay married for a while longer for the sake of finances and the kids. We live as roommates, and we lead seperate lives. It is so lonely and I feel so trapped. Not free to date and every day having to star in the face what I always feared my life would end up like. The lonliness is torture. Its working out as far as parenting and the finances and housing situation. But it is a horrible, lonely limbo and I live for the day I can get out of this situation. I wish I would meet someone else.
hopesndreams Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I wish I would meet someone else. Get the divorce and then you can, or are you hoping to meet someone while still married?
seibert253 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Your kids will fair better with two parents who are seperate and happy, than two parents who are living together and miserable.
Author MoscaVia Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 I wish I would meet someone else. Get the divorce and then you can, or are you hoping to meet someone while still married? either way. But I don't want to "cheat". I firmly believe if you are married and you want to cheat, get out of the marriage. So if I met someone, It would light a fire under me to get out.
Author MoscaVia Posted September 21, 2009 Author Posted September 21, 2009 I wish I would meet someone else. Get the divorce and then you can, or are you hoping to meet someone while still married? either one would do.
lupa Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 My H and I decided to stay married for a while longer for the sake of finances and the kids. We live as roommates, and we lead seperate lives. It is so lonely and I feel so trapped. Not free to date and every day having to star in the face what I always feared my life would end up like. The lonliness is torture. Its working out as far as parenting and the finances and housing situation. But it is a horrible, lonely limbo and I live for the day I can get out of this situation. I wish I would meet someone else. Did you and your husband discuss trying marriage counseling?
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