yag1967 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I know he likes me because he calls me every single day. He's been married twice and divorced twice. He has no children and is 35. I'm 42 but trust me I don't look my age. He has made the second date with me and it's a date on another Sunday. Why doesn't he ask me out for fri. or sat.?
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 He's been married twice and divorced twice. At 35?? Huge red flag.
Author yag1967 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 I have also been married twice and divorced twice. The first was when I was 25 and the second just this year at 42. I too have no children. And I waited 13 years before I got re-married. Is that a red flag for him too? Maybe that's why he's being cautious.
alphamale Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Why doesn't he ask me out for fri. or sat.? maybe he's with wife #3?
Author yag1967 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 No wife number 3 either. But this multiple marriage thing is really bothering people huh? I guess since I have had 2 marriages that did not succeed I kinda can relate to him about it. We both were taken advantage of both times. Do you think that maybe he is just being cautious and doesn't want to give up his nights with the guys time?
alphamale Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Do you think that maybe he is just being cautious and doesn't want to give up his nights with the guys time? i don't really know
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Honestly, 2 marriages and 2 divorces at 35 shows that he's simply not good at making choices. 35 for a guy is way too young to have 2 divorces.
caramel c Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Since you've only had one date so far, I don't think it's any of your business what he is doing on Friday and Saturday nights unless he volunteers the information. There is no reason to panic or create an issue of this, at this point.
alphamale Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Honestly, 2 marriages and 2 divorces at 35 shows that he's simply not good at making choices. 35 for a guy is way too young to have 2 divorces. indeed, not to mention the fact that each successive marriage has a higher divorce rate than the previous one
JohnP82 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I've heard some people say that you should not go out on Fri. and Sat. dates until things become more serious. Or maybe he's busy those days.
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 No wife number 3 either. But this multiple marriage thing is really bothering people huh? I guess since I have had 2 marriages that did not succeed I kinda can relate to him about it. We both were taken advantage of both times. Do you think that maybe he is just being cautious and doesn't want to give up his nights with the guys time? This is what I would do if I were you: I would look for someone my age (I understand you don't look your age but I believe mentally you ARE your age, right?) or older. Someone mature. Unless you were some 20-something yrs old, 35 is not mature at all. This guy sounds like a total waste of time. He probably multidates too, reason why he wants to see you on Sundays. But if you're still interested in wasting more time, you can try ask to ask him why he doesn't ask you out on Fri. or Sat.
alphamale Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 But if you're still interested in wasting more time, you can try ask to ask him why he doesn't ask you out on Fri. or Sat. if some chick asked me that after one date i'd be like **** this bull****
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 LOL! I know, right? But looks like it's bothering her, so..
Author yag1967 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 I will go out with him on Sunday cuz frankly I really like him. He makes me laugh and that is real important to me. And he actually laughs at my wise ass self. But if he can multi-date, so can I. Maybe this way I won't be so available for him.
alphamale Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I will go out with him on Sunday cuz frankly I really like him. He makes me laugh and that is real important to me. And he actually laughs at my wise ass self. But if he can multi-date, so can I. Maybe this way I won't be so available for him. i think you're putting the cart before the horse here - this is dangerous behaviour
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