Myst Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 ...what are the reasons you won't call it a date? Also even though, you made out with her + touching the second time you took her out. 2. Also, if the guy has not set an actual 'date' yet after 2 days of taking this girl out, do you think hes into her?
bhweller Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I really don't understand your question.
The Collector Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Why should the guy pay for everything on the 2nd date? Because you say so? Maybe if you'd bothered to explain why, we'd have something to discuss.
torranceshipman Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 No, I think the OP meant that a guy had taken her out twice, paid both times, showed interest via being physical, but they haven't put a label on what they're doing, i.e. she wants to know if they are officially dating...
Author Myst Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 No, I think the OP meant that a guy had taken her out twice, paid both times, showed interest via being physical, but they haven't put a label on what they're doing, i.e. she wants to know if they are officially dating... Lol. exactly. i couldnt quite be as succinct as that,woops:bunny:
caramel c Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Let's take a step back for a minute. You had 2 nice dates, if you want to call them dates call them dates. I would. Don't worry about anything else. Why does it matter if he calls it dates or dating? Just enjoy your time with him, and enjoy your time when you aren't with him.
Hkizzle Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 It's easy to pay twice for a date. All I need is to budget out $200.......... If I wasn't serious but had the money, what's to stop me from paying?
aerogurl87 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 ...what are the reasons you won't call it a date? Also even though, you made out with her + touching the second time you took her out. 2. Also, if the guy has not set an actual 'date' yet after 2 days of taking this girl out, do you think hes into her? I went through this same crap with the guy I'm dating now. He took me out to dinner, then ice cream, and a movie the first time. Then the second time it was dinner and a game of pool, yet he kept referring to it as "hanging out" when he asked me if I wanted to do something. So what did I do? I got fed up with it and told him point blank that what we were doing felt more like dates than hanging out. Then he confessed that I was right and now we're officially dating. Sometimes guys just need a little push especially if they're shy and/or don't know whether or not your exactly into them for them or just going out for fun.
Author Myst Posted September 19, 2009 Author Posted September 19, 2009 Thanks for the responses guys/girls. Do you think he's into me then if hes taking a while to go on what he calls a 'date'? He texted me today just to say whats up, it was really just 2 text messages. We also talked on msn twice after the second time he took me out. Just casual conversation, very brief. I didnt ask him when he was taking me out to a real date.
shunter Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Of course he is into you. Get over the insecurity. You two are dating, plain and simple.
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