foreverflirt Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I am a flirty person by nature. My current of 2 years feels that I am being unfaithful. Now I have to admit that the flirting does get a little suggestive but nothing happens. She gets really upset and now may want to end the relationship and I am Not sure what to do now?
JustLooking123 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Friendly banter with the opposite sex is no biggie...but just how suggestive do you get? Assuming she is not making an unreasonable demand, maybe you have to decide if your flirting is worth losing the relationship for.
Author foreverflirt Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 I don't don't know how to quantify it but she has heard me say things similar to our friends and it seemed ok but if it is someone she doesn't know, that is when the problems begin. Now I didn't have the greatest track record when I was younger and she knew me then, But I am not interested in anyone but her now and she says that how could I be into her if I flirt with other women.
boogieboy Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Well she cant handle it. So you can either stop flirting with other girls, or you can break up with her. I think youre not really that into her if youre flirting with other women. I have no desire to talk to women when I'm involved with a woman, but thats just me.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 FF - if the flirting is so much more important to you than her, then she doesn't sound like "the one" for you. It seems such a silly question if you actually really wanted to keep her. The answer's obvious - if you want her, quit flirting with other girls. If this was a girl that you were over-the-moon for and would walk the ends of the earth for...her request would not be that difficult to satisfy.
BobSacamento Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Omg you are a tease and a guy. Please leave your balls at the door.
sally4sara Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 When you flirt suggestively with women who have not made friends with your long term GF, you kill any chance of them becoming integrated friends. The new friend gets the sense that your GF must not be an important person in your life or you wouldn't e toying this way with them so they end up treating your GF shabby should you ever try to bring them around. And if your GF already knows them as this strange woman you share suggestive comments with, she will not give them a fair shot and be embarrassed that they know she sticks around with a guy who acts like she doesn't exist unless she is standing next to you. When you do have them in the same room, you get to stroke your ego with the fact that they're upset over you. Then because neither girl can be at ease around the other, you've cemented the new girl as the one who validates and feeds your ego and it is as though you did it on purpose so you can have your old GF and your new toy completely separate from each other. You sound like a drama queen.
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