sara82 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Let him go....or do I still have a chance?? This exact time last year I met a guy and we dated briefly. We were really into eachother, and we always made it clear how we felt. Well one evening he came over to my house after work to spend time with me. I'll admit...I had a bad day at work and stupidly took it all out on him. I almost..."nickpicked" him all night. I know I made him feel like s**t and made him feel like he wasn't good enough. The next day he was VERY mad at me, I said I was sorry but at that point the damage had been done, he already started to pull away and by the next week he broke up with me. Fast foward to now. We've kept in contact with eachother for the past year...mainly just through text messages. I gave him his distance after he ended things, since he was so hurt and mad at me. I let him come to me and he will almost "check in" with me usually a couple times a month for the most part. He did start to open up a little earlier in the year and I ended up seeing him twice (once in March, then again in April). We would always kiss and fool around when we did see eachother...and again...always initated by him. But then the next day he would always immediately pull away after seeing me. He'd have excuses like he didn't want a relationship and just disappear, then several weeks would go by and then his "just checking in texts" would start again. He is now seeing someone..since early June. She seems like the polar opposite of me, judging by the photos and facebook profile. Yet he is still checking in with me (not as often as when he was single...but he's still doing it). Well yesterday morning I got a text from him, pretty much stating that he's been thinking about me a lot and that he wanted me to send him a picture through my cell. I told him through text that I heard about his girlfriend, and that I was glad he seemed happy...he just responded "At times I am, but we argue a lot" I ended up sending him a picture message through my phone, mainly cause I've been really missing him lately. I ended up being a little silly and sent a text with the picture saying "bad! but i'm in a rush haha". He just responded.." You look good in all of them" As far as I know...he's still dating this other girl. Anyway, my question for all of you is....do you think I have a chance???? I know that I hurt him, and made him feel like he wasnt good enough but I'd like to think that if he was done with me and didn't care, then he wouldn't of kept in contact with me for this entire year. What do you think. I think the world of this guy..I would like a second chance to see where it might lead. I would love to get back into his heart
fofiffs Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Well in my opinion after reading your post it seems like he's using you as the back burner whenever he feels like it or when things ain't going so well for him. If he really did love you this whole time wouldn't you two be still together. Granted you did take take your stress out on him but its not like you cheated on him anyway. My ex use to do the same to me when she was all tired or stressed but i still stayed because stuff like that happens. Maybe the only time he contacts you is when its not going to well with the other girl. But what happens when they make up again, you get left with nothing. Just move on. You've got through a whole year without him, so it shouldn't be that hard
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