matt367 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Hey guys i used to frequent this board about a year ago when my ex and i were having trouble. Fast forward to now and we have been split up since july. I went NC until recently and found out that she had met someone in the time that we had broken up and he was 30 years old while she is 20. Apparently this guy wants to marry her after 2 months and has a house in mind and a ring payed off as we speak. Anyway i just turned 23 and am starting my last year at university. I was actually pretty sad to hear the news of her impending marriage(its in may) as i always hoped we could reconcile and get married ourselves. However i called her a few days ago and was very polite and told her good luck and not to call me anymore so we can both live our lives. She agreed and hopefully things work out for the best. I know she isn't right for me but i feel pretty badly and i'm worried that it might carry over into my academic life which begins in about a week. What should i do until then to get her off my mind? Like some sort of rapid detox type of thing hahah.
johnny404 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Do things that would improve yourself - books, staying in shape etc. That helped me.
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I suggest you forget about her.... completely. Why did you call her and set yourself back??? Dont let what she's doing affect your future. Your in college and you cannot afford to let your grades slip.
silic0ntoad Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Let's not forget that she's a moron for getting married so early. She hasn't even hit 21 yet, and gone to clubs/bars and seen all the available guys. I smell a new comer to the forums not long from now! Good luck, and ignore her BS.
DustySaltus Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 Let's not forget that she's a moron for getting married so early. She hasn't even hit 21 yet, and gone to clubs/bars and seen all the available guys. I smell a new comer to the forums not long from now! Good luck, and ignore her BS. Sili, I give the marriage six months, but that's besides the point. Take all of your frustration out on your schoolwork and just do the best you can possibly do for yourself. You would be amazed what you can accomplish when your are motivated and focused.
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