BigBubbs Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 My Ex and I had a big fight a month ago and broke up. She is 40 and has had abusive past relationships. She also has 2 teenage children. I have been No Contact for a month now and have only had a few texts regarding items left at my house. Whenever we fought she would give ultimatums about ending things and I would always back off. I truly do love her and want to make things work. I really believed that when I accepted this ultimatum she would come back after she realized that I was gone. She hasn't. It hurts everyday and I really want to try to make it work but everyone says breaking NC will just make me look more needy. Please help all advice is appreciated.
Author BigBubbs Posted September 17, 2009 Author Posted September 17, 2009 When we would argue about relationship things such as communication problems, differences of opinions etc. She hates conflict and would always say if I can't accept it then I should just leave.
NopeNah Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 That's some awesome communication skills she's got! Why do you want to live with/like this again?
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