What behavior(s) will forever make you run the other way?

[loveslife]

1. Rushing you into a relationship.

 

2. Lack of respect for themself and others. Including boundaries.

 

Number 1 is probably the biggest because it is generally the most obvious the soonest.

 

You?

[sumdude]

1. (with a bullet!) Dishonesty (ex wife was a compulsive liar)

 

no trust.. no relationship

 

2. Disrespectful

3. Overly critical

4. Self centered

[Thaddeus]

• Erratic emotions
  
• Undisciplined financial habits
  
• Sexually repressed
  
• Heavily into religion, asstrology, Tarot cards, numerology and other such nonsense
  

[tinktronik]

1. Any form of physical aggression.

 

2. Any form of perceived controlling behavior.

 

3. A person who does not clearly love themselves.

 

4. Rushing into a relationship. Personally it takes me a long time to decide to love or not to love. Probably around a year or so. I know most people do not take this long but this is me.

[AlektraClementine]

Drinks too much

 

Overall negative attitude

 

30 year old man stuck in the behavior patterns of a 20 year old

 

Snobby

 

Dismissive or un-empathetic to those less fortunate

 

No sense of humor

[New Again]

Drinks/parties too much.

 

Can't take responsibility for himself and his actions.

[TaraMaiden]

Physical violence.

 

That would be it.

Everything else may be negotiable, but lay one finger on me.....

[bluewolf17]

Lying

 

Lack of confidence/back bone

 

Addictions

 

Being a adult child

 

BEING NEGATIVE/DOWNER.

[sally4sara]

1. Inappropriate drinking

2. Tries to spend a lot of money on me but barely knows me

3. Doesn't answer yes and no questions directly and never actually uses the words yes or no in their response

4. Makes prejudiced comments with no hint of absurd humor to them

5. Talks negatively about people who they supposedly are friends with

6. Uses any drug habitually OR uses hard drugs at all

7. Has a kid but they are not very active in the kid's life

8. being passionate is good; being fanatical, about anything, is not

9. runs on assumptions

10. pushy (this can be about sex, violence, or simple not respecting someone's choice within the moment)

11. pretentious

[aerogurl87]

1) Doesn't respect their mother and/or sisters. (As my mom always used to tell me, the way he treats his mom is usually how he will treat you).

2) Possessiveness

3) Addictive personality

4) Has children

5) Likes to rush the relationship (ex. my ex boyfriend told me he loved me after we had been dating for a week, that should've been a sign right there for me, but dumbly I ignored it.)

6) Has an extremely negative outlook on life in general

[boogieboy]

Anything Jersey Shortie says or does.

[tomtom26]

1. Arrogance and Snotty

2. Rudeness (you can usually figure this out by observing their interaction with the waiter/waitress)

3. Getting attached/need/serious too soon