always_searching Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 After reading through the "Good ways to approach women" thread, it made me wonder the best ways for women to approach men--assuming, of course, that these women don't mind being the pursuers. Ladies: How do you go about approaching men? Gentlemen: How do you want women to approach you?
Hkizzle Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 Men are easy, most of the time when they don't approach a woman they like it's out of fear. Hence a woman that's interested in a guy should make eye contact and then throw him a really sweet smile for 3 seconds. Don't like your lips though, you get a totally different reaction if you lick your lips.
Author always_searching Posted September 17, 2009 Author Posted September 17, 2009 Don't like your lips though, you get a totally different reaction if you lick your lips. LOL, Hkizzle! From this and your comment in the flirting thread, I'm going to assume that lip-licking is a very sexual thing for you...why might that be, I wonder?
Hkizzle Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 There's a part in the male brain called the "I'll tap that ass, but will never commit, or will never commit to marriage" zone. Lick your lips, try and bribe us with sex, and various other behaviors will trigger that zone and then that women will forever be labelled a sex partner and nothing else (even if she's the guy's girlfriend).
alphamale Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 women should approach men by making extended eye contact, smiling and flipping their hair a lot. a hand on the hip helps too as does an alluring pose. showing some skin never hurts either.
Pedigree Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 Gentlemen: How do you want women to approach you? I don't have any particular way on how I would like to be approached. Just be sure to give me signals from my first response onwards so that I can be certain if this girl is just being polite/need directions/etc. or if she wants to date me.
Lish Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 Mmmm. I've never approached a guy (as in actually gone upto him), but smiling at them has never failed to make them come talk to me.. I think if the guy is interested he will get the hint.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 Ladies: How do you go about approaching men? I don't. I'd rather give eye contact and a winning smile and let them figure it out. I'm not into pursuing at all.
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