life101 Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Well where do I began....I am married and my husband adopted my 2 children but, throughout our marriage he has been in and out of the hospital for use of narcotics and drinking.But now he is in recovery, and my ex was the same way also, my ex gave up the rights of his children because his wife told him to or see was gone, I still cant belive he did it. My ex and I were together for six years, and my husband and I have been together for 2 years...Is it wrong for me to be thinking about him alot lately...I just feel like maybe things could be different...I don't know.......Please give me some advice! I am very confused....
Scottdmw Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 It sounds like you're feeling confused and lost, not sure what to do? I know how it can be sometimes having thoughts of your ex come up even though you're in a new relationship. In my experience it has usually in practice caused trouble. In your situation too, it seems like it's pretty clear you and your ex are done with. Remember there is always a grass is greener feeling that will come into your mind, thinking that whatever it is you don't is better than what you do have. Don't know what to tell you about your husbands narcotic and drinking problem. I'm sure you realize it's a pretty big deal. Try to encourage him for his own sake in recovery and give him what support you can. Has he tried a 12-step program? Many people have turned their lives around that way. Scott
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