Author NSW768 Posted September 24, 2009 Author Posted September 24, 2009 i think they are both very emotional but are trying to hold the upper hand on us, which they perceive they have. at one point my ex even said "i have to do this so i can feel empowered" about the breakup. if we let go we move on and take that away from them. and who wants someone that feels empowered by making u feel like ****?
JaggedRoad Posted September 24, 2009 Posted September 24, 2009 Sounds a lot like my ex. I'm glad you got your closure and can finally move on =) Best of luck to you.
Author NSW768 Posted September 24, 2009 Author Posted September 24, 2009 i feel like even if she called me today and begged me to come back I would have to say no. ive lost a lot of respect for her throughout this experience and learned a lot about myself. that being said i wonder any insight from some LS pro's as whats going on with her regarding the actions i described in my previous posts. blocking out emotions, needing to feel empowered and still saying she loves me...leaves me contemplating what exactly is going on in her head. im not dwelling on it really at all, just curious...
Author NSW768 Posted September 24, 2009 Author Posted September 24, 2009 it is better to not contemplate or analyze, so i wont.
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