Author New Again Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 Not completely different. I just don't like the idea of a sleep over with a member of the opposite sex. This was actually what sealed the deal for me (plus the drinks), even though it would've been separate rooms. At first I thought it might be drive down, taping, drive back, and I was considering it at that point, as long as bf was comfortable with it, before I got more details.
hoping2heal Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Absolutely not. That would be very hurtful to my partner and I have no interest on hurting him. That is the kind of thing you do with your same sex friends, or your romantic partner, you don't do it with someone of the opposite sex. That's just asking to bring a whole **** storm of ill feelings and garbage into a relationship.
BCCA Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Not completely different. I just don't like the idea of a sleep over with a member of the opposite sex. How is it not completely different? She said she would go by herself, and you say 'only if my boyfriend could come too'. That would be entirely different, not even worthy of a post if the bf was coming along.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 I would not go. Drinks and crashing overnight = not cool in my book. Especially since he doesnt know this guy. I agree. The drinking and crashing overnight got me, too. I wouldn't go.
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