b3nx Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 So basically never opened myself up to a girl. I got an amazing girlfriend from the uk who basically been everything I want in a girl. We never fight always laugh. She is very full on about her feelings and well I came out of my shell and played ball. I feel vunerable telling her strong feelings and everything mainly because girls in the past have used them to try and take control. This is not the case we both just seem to always be on the same wave length. I am not "whipped" nor is she we just are very open and honest. I feel as a guy I should not be and it is the girl that says all this lovey dovy stuff but I enjoy it and she loves hearing it. Am I doing any harm?
Thaddeus Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Am I doing any harm?Hard to say, but probably not at this point. You're right, though, in that women will often use their man's vulnerabilities as a control point. How long have you been seeing her?
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