SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Well I just wanted to post something happy today as Ive posted a few threads recently about a few probs me and my new partner have had. He was addicted to porn it seamed at one point. But I think were finally Thu all that he actually said today hes not as interested in porn anymore and he doesn't need it since he has me! Things can work out if both people are willing to work at it I guess. I'm really falling for this guy hes my best friend and my partner something witch has never happened to me before this is amazing I hope it lasts for ever..!
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Spanks, I am responding because I don't want you to think that nobody cares that you're happy. I am happy that you are happy.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 Spanks, I am responding because I don't want you to think that nobody cares that you're happy. I am happy that you are happy. Aww thanks Hun! your a doll.. I really am happy and I just felt that people always post when things are going bad ya know? So might be nice to let people know that things have turned around and are on the right track again hope all is well for you too
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Yes, things are going well for me. I *know* I'm falling in love, but I'm trying not to. LOL I've never met anybody like him in my life - this means men & women of all ages and types. He's absolutely amazing. And I'm not even talking about how he treats me - just how he IS, period. Makes. Me. Melt. I'm in so much trouble with this one. LOL
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 Yes, things are going well for me. I *know* I'm falling in love, but I'm trying not to. LOL I've never met anybody like him in my life - this means men & women of all ages and types. He's absolutely amazing. And I'm not even talking about how he treats me - just how he IS, period. Makes. Me. Melt. I'm in so much trouble with this one. LOL Oh awesome good news Soul just trust your gut if it feels right then don't fight it to much lol.. I know the feeling tho its amazing Ive had a few relationships in my life but never like this! Ive never connected with a man on this level before and I have a good feeling its mutual we understand each other we so "click" its so nice to have found my best friend after all the wackos losers and abusers. I can honestly say I'm hoping to some day marry him all tho hes said he doesn't think he ever wants to marry anyone do you think that could change in time he said it very early on before we even really started going out? We have talked about having a family something witch I wouldn't ever consider with any one else. I honestly thought I never wanted anymore until now. But I can tell he would be an excellent father he has the patients of a saint! god he makes me melt they will be dam cute kids too lol..
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 I'm glad things are on a positive note. But a word of caution - when a guy says he doesn't see himself getting married, please believe him. Even if it seems to be a casual comment or joke. If you're cool with never getting married, then he'll be fine for you. But if you hope that's what you'll have one day, don't hold your breath. As far as the having kids thing...he is in favor? How does he feel about having children outside of wedlock? That may be a question to ask and you'd get your answer as to if he will never marry ANYONE, or if he'd ever consider marrying YOU.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 I'm glad things are on a positive note. But a word of caution - when a guy says he doesn't see himself getting married, please believe him. Even if it seems to be a casual comment or joke. If you're cool with never getting married, then he'll be fine for you. But if you hope that's what you'll have one day, don't hold your breath. As far as the having kids thing...he is in favor? How does he feel about having children outside of wedlock? That may be a question to ask and you'd get your answer as to if he will never marry ANYONE, or if he'd ever consider marrying YOU. Yeah I believe him and I actually had agreed myself to the same thing if he never wants to I'm OK with it. I don't need a piece of paper to show how much we love each other. But its just the fact ide even seriously consider it with him that is amazing to me ya know. Far as the kids hes very much in favor he actually wants them more then I do I think. Hes asked repeatedly when I would want to have one he seams very driven to be a dad odd for a man no? We have decided in about a year and a half we will start trying after we are more settled/stable financially. I don't know he said he doesn't think he will ever marry any one. And when he had said he wanted kiddies he also in the next breath said but we don't have to get married? I don't get it if your willing to have kids and want to stay with the person then why not? meh like I said its not a burning issue for me I can take it or leave it either way I love him besides after so many years I think its common law anyways
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