4givrnt4gtr Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 So last night I went to sleep early. I heard my phone ringing a few times but didnt bother picking up or even looking at it. Well, this morning i went to facebook and I saw my ex put as his status "4givrs's ex got his heart broken for the last time" I was really puzzled by this...i mean forget that even though I broke it off it was more me doing him the favor to do it because he didnt have the guts to do it himself....but I know him, and he isnt one to be putting stuff like that out there! So i kept looking at other people's statuses and I saw my friend put that his team had lost to a rival team....It allll made sense!!! He was talking about his team losing! So i ignored it and went on about my day. Later I remembered the calls i didnt get last night. Well, there were about three calls about his status from mutual friends. One was my best friend telling me about it, the other two asking me what the heck did I do to him. Great. So I went back on facebook and under his status i posted "so that means you're finally giving up on the raiders??" haha by the way sorry for the loss. He responded with " yeah, it was horrible!! grrrrr" That was that. Bassically I did it so that everyone knows he isnt talking about our break up and Im not an evil heartbreaking witch. I guess i also saved his dignity....(it also shows me Im the last thing on his mind....otherwise he would have realized how bad that looks a week after our breaking up). Did i do the right thing? or should I have left it alone? I am going right back to NC......but i dont know....it really made me think we might be able to be friends sometime....when im moving to his hometown next year. I have it very clear i dont want to be with him now or ever....but it would be nice to know someone in a city i dont know a soul.... Another thing that striked me as funny was that after his response another of his ex posted "Go ninners!" to which he responded with "be quiet, they are even worse".....cold blooded really. Anyway what do you guys think.....should i go back to NC or leave the friendship door open?
smookie Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 I have it very clear i dont want to be with him now or ever....but it would be nice to know someone in a city i dont know a soul.... Someone told me Never slam a door tightly always keep it a bit open I would if I was ok with being friends with my ex without any hidden intension. I think that it is fine . you are not looking for clues or anything aout him and in turn thats tells me at least that you have a clear mind of what you want...
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 Thank you but now Im reconcidering it...maybe im not ready just yet. I just saw he posted something really mean spirited about my city, how is nothing but a big parking lot on the way to his city.... Jerk I dont know why it bothered me so much but it did and that tells me he still way too much power over me so NC it is for me
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