Ilovecake Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 When does this stop? It's been a year since we broke up. I feel like I have dealt with most of the breakup stuff. I no longer get sad, cry, want to run into him, want him to call. I don’t care that he has a new girlfriend, I don’t care that he doesn’t love me. I’m happy being alone and making new friends. I’m keeping busy and working on myself. I don't want him back. Yet he’s always lurking in the back of my mind. I always catch myself thinking about what he’s doing, what he would think of this and that, does he ever think about me…etc etc. Obviously I’m not a 100% over him but I wish this weird obsessing would stop. I wish I knew why I still have these thoughts and how to completely get rid of them. I really just don’t want to care anymore; I’m really tired of it and feel extremely frustrated. Also I still feel a lot of anger towards him. Something will remind me of something crappy he did and I get angry all over again. What do I need to do to fit this last piece of the puzzle into my broken heart and not care anymore? Is falling in love with someone else the only answer?
trueblue72ny Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 i think if you are with someone new your focus is on that. if you are still single after a break up from awhile ago than your thoughts still wander back to the ex because you are not thinking about someone else. i hope that makes sense?
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