saggyandnotloved Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 hey i just joined. im 20 and have 38d saggy boobs and stretch marks im 12and a half stone , have a hourglass figure lots of ppl come to me and say how pretty , and beautiful i am but i dotn c myself as they seem too. the main parts i dislike are my tights, stomach, boobs, im trying to get down to 10 stone. the reson my bobbies are saggy is because i lost a lot of weight a few years ago very quickly and they went south, iv only been with one guy but that was on a nite out and we wernt naked. iv just got bak form holiday were i met a guy , he seemed nice he was in his 30s, perfect ,we went out we had kind of a holiday romance. but in kew hes the one niter type but i said id enjoy it while it lasted we walked to the beach on my last nite we sat on the bench and we kissed cuddled he was very romantic and eventually while we were kissing he put his hand down my bra and carressed my breast i was kindof afraid in case hed now that they were saggy but he seemd to be enjoying it (so was i,) as he was almost erect on the bench. i wanted to go bakc ot his, and he wanted me to go bk to his but i was afriad that if he saw me naked he wouldn be attrachted to me . weve planned to keep in touch and imm goin over to c him after xmas. iv tough of getting a breast lift, but i dont think i would be able to go threw with it:o there is a new treatment that i was thinking of trying but thers a 60% chance it wont work on me cos thers low. but i wotn be able to try it till i get down to my preferrred weight what id like to no is can guys be attracted or love a girl who is in her 20s has saggy breasts isnt stick thin? also i was thinking could guys have sex with a girl with her bra on? any adivse would be great :bunny:xxx
Rollercoasterr Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 I'm pretty sure that besides your spelling and punctuation being awful, that you're also in the wrong area of the forums. And I really don't see what saggy boobs have to do with being unloved. You really might want to work on your spelling if you expect to get answers about your actual questions. I honestly couldn't even read past your subject line.
ecm Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 Hi "saggy". I too have large "b**bies" and am a larger girl. #1) guys that like b**bies just like b**bies. #2) SOME guys like "thicker" ladies (althoguht I'd rather be skinny, I'm not going to lie) #3) OF COURSE SOMEONE WILL LOVE YOU! #4) B**bie will sag if they are big (and real) HOWEVER, they only look saggy if you are on top.SO, once you find the right person (who loves all of you and your b**bies), I like to make them uselful and have them use their hands to help hold them up (if ya know what I mean) But honestly, that's more to make ME feel better. I don't think it's as big of a deal as we make it (BTW, I feel that this entire response is borderline inappropriate, but I thought I could maybe help since I can relate)
TMichaels Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 I'm pretty sure that besides your spelling and punctuation being awful, that you're also in the wrong area of the forums. Gee, I don't know RC. Maybe her dilemma is a new take on the term "LDR?" Best, TMichaels
Lovin a scrapper Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 Gee, I don't know RC. Maybe her dilemma is a new take on the term "LDR?" Best, TMichaels Now THAT is effin hilarious TMichaels. Im so cracking up. :lmao:
Trialbyfire Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 I'm having difficulty understanding the meat of the post so I'll just respond to the thread header of "can a guy love a girl with saggy breasts?". Can a woman love a man who's not physically perfect? OP, if you can love a man who's not physically perfect, a man can love a woman who's the same. Your breasts aren't all of you or at least I hope not, for all kinds of reasons.
ReturnToSender Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 Its nothing to worry about. At least you have size...Im tiny *and* saggy...have been so since I had my kiddo at 19. Im more self conscious about it than any guy Ive been with... My current bf, I feel even worse cause I know hes a breast man, like big time. But that hasnt stopped him for loving and being with me. We've talked about me getting implants, but either way, its not like its a deal breaker for him. And hey, I dont have to wonder if hes only attracted to me for my big perky breasts, since I have none to speak of. hah!
Phateless Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 hey i just joined. im 20 and have 38d saggy boobs and stretch marks im 12and a half stone , have a hourglass figure lots of ppl come to me and say how pretty , and beautiful i am but i dotn c myself as they seem too. the main parts i dislike are my tights, stomach, boobs, im trying to get down to 10 stone. the reson my bobbies are saggy is because i lost a lot of weight a few years ago very quickly and they went south, iv only been with one guy but that was on a nite out and we wernt naked. iv just got bak form holiday were i met a guy , he seemed nice he was in his 30s, perfect ,we went out we had kind of a holiday romance. but in kew hes the one niter type but i said id enjoy it while it lasted we walked to the beach on my last nite we sat on the bench and we kissed cuddled he was very romantic and eventually while we were kissing he put his hand down my bra and carressed my breast i was kindof afraid in case hed now that they were saggy but he seemd to be enjoying it (so was i,) as he was almost erect on the bench. i wanted to go bakc ot his, and he wanted me to go bk to his but i was afriad that if he saw me naked he wouldn be attrachted to me . weve planned to keep in touch and imm goin over to c him after xmas. iv tough of getting a breast lift, but i dont think i would be able to go threw with it:o there is a new treatment that i was thinking of trying but thers a 60% chance it wont work on me cos thers low. but i wotn be able to try it till i get down to my preferrred weight what id like to no is can guys be attracted or love a girl who is in her 20s has saggy breasts isnt stick thin? also i was thinking could guys have sex with a girl with her bra on? any adivse would be great :bunny:xxx You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. I am a boob man for sure and saggy breasts are just as much fun as perky breasts. Honestly, I think you're being silly to worry this much about it. Just relax and flaunt what you got. If that guy wasn't attracted to you he would not have gone for it. Be proud, take it all off, have a good time.
TMichaels Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 Now THAT is effin hilarious TMichaels. Im so cracking up. :lmao: :o:o TMichaels
Author saggyandnotloved Posted September 17, 2009 Author Posted September 17, 2009 hi, i just want to say to even one who was supportive im really greatful. thansk for replying. as for the comment on my spelling! its comes from spending a life time txting freinds!!! . and for those who didnt understand what i was saying . ill just put it plain and simple. im not fat but would still like to loose someweight. my breasts are saggy from loosing a lot of weight in a short space of time and at my age its somethign very stressful to deal with espicially as i dont no if guys will find me attractive, thats y i wanted ppls opinion on if it really maters to guys if breasts are perky or saggy regardless of age, and would they judge a woman by just their breasts/bodies alone or is there actually mature guys out their that value personalities too , for some of you this mite seem like the most stupid issue to me its a big deal and i think men dont realise how much we try to please them!!
Author saggyandnotloved Posted September 17, 2009 Author Posted September 17, 2009 hey phateless thanks so much for the post:bunny:, !!, but its different when your actually in the situation its really easy to say not worry but , unfortunatly for me not every guy shares your opinion. wish they did!!!!:pxxxx
Rollercoasterr Posted September 17, 2009 Posted September 17, 2009 hi, i just want to say to even one who was supportive im really greatful. thansk for replying. as for the comment on my spelling! its comes from spending a life time txting freinds!!! . and for those who didnt understand what i was saying . ill just put it plain and simple. im not fat but would still like to loose someweight. my breasts are saggy from loosing a lot of weight in a short space of time and at my age its somethign very stressful to deal with espicially as i dont no if guys will find me attractive, thats y i wanted ppls opinion on if it really maters to guys if breasts are perky or saggy regardless of age, and would they judge a woman by just their breasts/bodies alone or is there actually mature guys out their that value personalities too , for some of you this mite seem like the most stupid issue to me its a big deal and i think men dont realise how much we try to please them!! I work for a major wireless carrier in the U.S. and spend my entire life glued to my phone and you'll never ever see me type like that. If you want advice for something, be thoughtful and take time to write out your words. Texting all the time is no excuse. I can't even bring myself to text that way. It may be easier to use text speak but it isn't easy on the eye unless you're a teenager that grew up with it. I'm just saying. No offense intended. As for your actual problem, don't worry about it. Men don't care as long as you let them play with what you've got. Tanning makes stretch marks less noticeable and they also makes creams and things for that. Building up a little self confidence about your body and feeling comfortable in your own skin will make you sexier than any cream could ever do.
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