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I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months now. We're pretty much spending all our free time together. He works insane hours but he's always asking me to come out places when he's off work or just come round his to watch TV when he's tired. We talk every day. He made the first move when it came to kissing/holding hands etc. and is very affectionate.

 

I haven't slept with him yet but it feels like we're doing what a "couple" would do. Last week we were at his and we were talking about the career I'm working towards. I won't be finishing the exams until next May/June. I'll be setting up my own business afterwards (hopefully!) and he said something about coming to help me choose the things I'll need to buy which made me think he's wanting this to be a long term thing if he's thinking he'll still be around next May (if that makes sense).

 

Then yesterday he rang me when he got home from work asking if I wanted to come round. I left my phone at home so he gave me his to ring someone and he's got a picture of us as the background on his phone :).

 

Anyways, rambling. Things are really good. But we haven't actually said we're boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm just wondering if that's just something I should know? Or is it something that should be talked about? He's working till late this evening but I really want to talk to him tonight and ask him. Ah, this is stupid, I do realise that lol. Just wondering if I should ask him or if it's just obvious and I should know already?

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